i'am filipina and my boyfriend is an indian its a long distance relationship...
i know he has some problem now but he wont share it with me
and i'm really worried about him...his friends says its a family problem but they won't tell me the details..so i'm so confused now...i dont know what do to do inorder to open his problem to me..
2006-11-30 20:57:33 · 11 answers · asked by spark 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes Indian guys are reserved when it comes to feelings........but however this does not seem a nationality issue.......some guys in general are reserved while some just blurt out everything....but i guess u r lucky to find a guy who has the ability to keep things inside his stomach.....anyways coming to the point......you guys are firstly in a long distance relationship.......does Ur bf trust u enough to share everything.......after all family is a very private unit...do u trust him completely and would tell him every single detail about yourself.........maybe not.......so have faith in him.........if he needs you be sure he will ask for your help...... maybe this is something he does not want to burden you with........or maybe this is something that he thinks he should give it a shot at handling himself.........give him sometime..........if u guys have been seeing each other for a while he will definitely talk to you about it when the issue gets resolved.........secondly don't discuss the issue with his friends........he might end up thinking you don't trust him enough and you keep a tab on him...... i am sure you have made a great decision of having him in your life than anyone else.........so trust him and let time be the best healer..........all the best!!!!!!
2006-11-30 21:14:44 · answer #1 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has something to do with trust. Let him know that you can be trusted and that you can also be loyal no matter what you will learn about him. He may have doubts about how you will accept the "problem" . Assure him that you will not change and will always be there no matter what. And wait for him to confide in his own good time. Don't force it out from him. This will only make things worse. Give him some space to tell you whatever he likes. I know in time, he will confide, especially if he will be assured of your unconditional love. I tell you this because my male Indian friends are very open with me. Sana, maging mabuti ang resulta. Good luck.
2006-11-30 22:39:03 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its a trust thing i am an american indian
most indian guys think too much, and it ends up ruining a lot of good times and we lose a lot because we grow up learning we are a conquered people and it makes us angry and not want to trust people especially from another race (like filipino)
hopefully in the future we will raise our kids better than we were raised, so they will be more open minded instead of livin in a box.
2006-11-30 21:07:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, yes, they can be. My ex boyfriend from high school was indian. (If you're talking about American indian)... He was self reserved --- very much so with his feelings. He did warm up to me as he felt I was his best friend. But it took a lot of dragging out of him at first.
2006-11-30 21:01:01 · answer #4 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not that Indian guys are more reserved in showing their feelings......they rather know which one to express n' which one to hide.......they are what I call as a bit "gentlemanly"...In your case ur BF would have thought it better not to trouble u with his problems..........If ur relationship is a close one..u can claim ur right to have ur share from his problem.
2006-11-30 21:04:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i imagine there's a huge difference between sexual thoughts and women purely take position to be there and sexual thoughts for some one. maximum adult men have truly severe sex drives and there are not any sexual thoughts connected. There are purely sexual thoughts and someone they need will be on the receiving end. yet attachment? it truly is yet another situation, thoroughly. adult men experience sexual or appealing. appealing female walks by. twist of destiny, no longer something extra. The sexual thoughts are literally not connected to the lady, they are connected to the guy. completely.
2016-11-30 00:21:15 · answer #6 · answered by england 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's the matter of the society influence. he does not want to disturb u .And that is the mentality of Indian people.
ASK HIM.and if he does not tell convince him that u will be finding a solution to his problem.and be calm.
2006-11-30 22:06:25 · answer #7 · answered by a j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In india about expressing feelings is bit slow if it is a true relation but it is mostly shoure
2006-11-30 21:11:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
indian guys are quite ok in expressing their feelings but indian gals are far more reserved in expressing their feeling!!!!
2006-11-30 21:07:41 · answer #9 · answered by rahul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A big no
Leave this man
Move on.
Remember human nature basics are same everywhere.
2006-11-30 22:07:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋