You have a steady boyfriend / girlfriend and you both are having sex. Even though you two aren't married, would you consider that adultry? Many people only think about adultry as cheating while in a marriage. Well...
I DO THINK IT IS ADULTRY IF YOU'RE MARRIED OR NOT! It doesn't matter if you're married or not according to the Bible and my own personal opinion. Even looking at someone lustfully is a adulterer. You're not even suppose to remarry someone who has been divorced because that's also adultry! The Bible is very strict!
I personally don't understand why people who are dating or in a serious relationship feel like they need to have sex. Just because you're dating someone, doesn't mean you have to have sex like most people look for in society. My views on society is that society is messed up!
All this porn stuff makes me sick! It's so gross. The women who feed men's minds are only in it for attention or money!
2006-11-30 20:10:12 · 16 answers · asked by serenity78 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I personally believe condoms shouldn't be given out because to me, condoms are looked at by mainly young people as their gateway to have sex. It sorta influences them...They think they'll be ok when suddenly, something wrong happens and finds out they're pregnant. OH NO! How shocking? Sex was created A MAN AND A WOMAN who respect each other and to have children. I don't understand why people are shocked when they find out they're pregnant. That's the way a baby happens folks! If you can't face the responsibility , don't spread your legs. Also too, if you can't face the responsibility that you'll be judged by God, don't spread your legs!
It literally makes me ill how children of today ages of 13, 14, and 16 are embarrassed to be virgins!!! HOW SICK IS THAT???? WAKE UP WORLD???? Lets teach them proper morals and teach men to respect women around the world!!!
2006-11-30 20:16:24 · update #1
You people bashing me is proof that SATAN has you!!! LEARN PROPER MORALS!!
YOU ALL NEED PRAYER! YOU READ THE BIBLE!
2006-11-30 20:18:36 · update #2
Everyone justifies the Bible to make things right. Well, the Bible says what is sin and not sin. What is so hard about that? WAKE UP!
2006-11-30 20:19:05 · update #3
I WILL PRAY FOR ALL OVER YOU AS I STATED ABOVE!!!
2006-11-30 20:29:06 · update #4
Premarital sex is fornication. Adultery is sex outside of marriage. Both are sin.
Research shows that a marriage has a far better chance of lasting if both the man and woman say faithful to each other. If both are virgins, it is even better. True love waits.
Many think that GOD just does not want us to have fun, but look around and see all the harm that is caused by promiscuous sex.
Sexual transmitted disease including Aides, would not exist in humans if everyone followed Biblical guidelines.
There would be a great reduction of broken homes and unwanted children if we were faithful to our own spouse
In short, there is always a hidden cost for sin. It always cost us more then we can afford and it always cost others then just the one doing it.
2006-11-30 20:22:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well how do you feel if the two who are not married made a commitment together to be together forever and have sex and have only had sex with each other. Before paper slips that's all there was stating that you are married. Also if the bible say do not judge thi neighbor and the bible says do not marry someone who is divorced because it is wrong isn't that judging someone else and isn't the bible contradicting itself. Also doesn't the bible teach acceptance and forgiveness and love. Well then that would be forgiving someone for their sins and accepting them for who they are. You need to think for yourself to an extent which does not seem like this is happening.
Is it right for people to have multiple sex partners without any remorse to the others feelings and just doing it to satisfy their own needs and pleasures well of course not but one sin is no better then the other so by you judging others based on their decisions when only god is supposed to condemn them for what they have done your sinning so it is no different.
2006-12-01 04:24:04 · answer #2 · answered by Syrinthia C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you pretty much answered the question. Yes, it is adultery unless you are married to the person. Jesus did say that for a man to even look upon a woman with lust, has already committed adultery in his heart. It also says in the Bible to be fruitful and multiply. How can a person multiply if they don't have sex when they are married?
2006-12-01 04:22:49 · answer #3 · answered by Dakota Lynn Takes Gun 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your strict belief systems have twisted your ideas about sex. The very proof of celibacy in catholic ministry shows what this does to you. Sex is a natural experience. In fact its one of the greatest physical experiences humans can have and therefore a gift from God/Life. there is nothing wrong with loveless sex but people who partake in it are missing out on the greatest gift sex has to offer. By creating wrongs, taboos and inhibitions about sex through religious teachings we have created too many twisted ideas abot it and this is why our society is rampant with sexual deviance..
As for pornography, it is our religious teachings which condition so many to see it as vile or offensive. Its funny how so many religious parents will allow there children to sit and watch violence on their tv or even sport where they teach their child to win by beating others, yet show them the NATURAL act of sex and they become disgusted ?????
2006-12-01 04:20:42 · answer #4 · answered by SUFI 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uhmm interesting. I guess marriage really is an economic arrangement. The man gives the woman a house and food, and gets in return sex. John - prostitute relationship, I understand.
No thank-you, you can keep you immoral system of legal prostitution to yourself, I think I will just fall in love and prepare yourself - have sex.
2006-12-01 04:20:34 · answer #5 · answered by Just Wondering 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to be very uptight and religious oriented.
It might be best if you didn't ask questions about sexual conduct on Answerer's as that you might corrupt your virginal attitude by hearing answers that would upset you.
Most adults have sex.
Often.
Wheather they are married or not.
And when they are married, they often have sex in ways that that aren't acceptable to you.
Oral, anal , dom, femdom, peeing, the list goes on and on and on.
It's best that you don't witness this, it is an adult community.
2006-12-01 04:23:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because you don't "understand" a natural biological imperative doesn't mean people are going to change for your religious/personal beliefs. I read in the bible that humans were supposed to "be fruitful and multiply."
2006-12-01 04:16:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
u shouldnt quote the bible about having sex because you are without being married. i do the same thing. a commitment if strong is set in stone married or not. if they will cheat on you now they will in the future
2006-12-01 04:15:50 · answer #8 · answered by help you 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well ure rite abt the porn but sexuality and enjoyment of it is rly a holy thing but its become perverted in modern times- its more animalistic than it should be- its practiced wenever werever whoever and whatever. i think its natural and not adultery, but its view is incorrect. its lost its beauty and special-ness (lol) because its supposed to be something shared with man and wife alone, making their relationship more than what they have with any other person.
2006-12-01 04:18:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
LOL....Your thoughts are between you and God.He gave you the ability to think about things like that so you don't have to do them and actually commit sin.
If you want to not think about sex it's your problem,but it's not a sin to think about doing anything,only actually doing it.
2006-12-01 04:19:15 · answer #10 · answered by Vtmtnman 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋