How could i tell my daughter is very independent and confident?

Question

my 21 month old gets frustrated very quickly if she can't manage to do what she wants to..for example coloring she would just give up by throwing her colors about if she can't keep the colors within the picture..it worries me sometimes that why does she give up so easily.

Answer 1

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Answer 2

It is easy! But first, hwo is your relationship with your daughter? I know that when my mother and I talk, I need to know that she and I are on the same page, and she is doing it because she is truly concerned about me in a heartfelt way, not a psycho weird way. Tell, her how many people in the world would want to be just like her, how she is the only person with her exact personality, facial feature, and special talents. Tell her that the way she looks is beautiful, and that everything she does is specail to everyone. Just make her feel like she is the universe, and she can do and be anything she ever wants to.I hope that this helps some.

Answer 3

Iv had this problem with my little boy.all what you can do is encourage her explain that she is doing great,sit and play with her use her hand and show her the more you practise with her them she will pick it up and hopefully learn how to do it and wont get so frustrated. Kids do get board and loose concentration just don't give up on her as she will get older it will com more easily and she will concentrate better and understand that. I hope this helps.

Answer 4

kids of this age often get frustrated when they can't do something. just give her plenty of praise and tell her how great she is and when she colours in pictures tell her what a great job shes doing and how clever she is {really over do it!!} if your daughter knows that you think shes amazing, she'll start believeing it herself and her confidence will increase.

Answer 5

By testing her. obv without her knowing. if you dont test her you will never know how she looks after things, what time she gets home or how good she looks after something dear to you. If she wants you to trust her she will pass every test you give her. i.e. telling her to be home a so and so time. leaving her in charge of helping around the house with something etc

Answer 6

she's not even 2 years old, and at that age kids don't have the level of concentration that u are talking about. the most important thing is to encourage your daughter, if she gets positive feed back when she's drawing something, or doing an activity like that, she will associate that activity with praise, and feeling good about herself. please try not to worry about her levels of concentration at this age, it does improve with time, just try to relax and enjoy. my son is 4 years old, and it's quite scary how quickly they do start growing up and changing..... this is just one stage of your daughter's life.......

Answer 7

try sitting down with her and talk to her. tell her its okay if she cant color inside the lines. tell her the more she practice the better shell get at anything she does. tell her about you when you were that age. and tell her everyone didnt color inside the lines etc. when they were that age. good luck.

Answer 8

The answer below from sand_illu. is lovely. I advise you to take on board sand_illu..'s advise. Love is the key. Love and patience.

Answer 9

try sitting with her while she does her work then when u see a change going to take place try to calm her down and tell her it's ok

Answer 10

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