2006-11-30 18:47:27 · 14 answers · asked by Ben S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most of the time when we meet people in bars and clubs two parties are generally looking for one thing. To have some fun on a short term basis. I have met many women at bars and clubs, but none of them quality. They all ended up being flings. Girls with good heads on their shoulders don't hang out in bars and party til 4 in the morning. Want to meet some great women try some different avenues. This is a little bit tough, but like most things in life the more you fail the more likely you are to succeed. There may be someone at work who has their eye on you. Try church, the gym, the supermarket, starbucks (my personal favorite), or even your local mall. Most women don't get approached when they are not in the the bar/club scene. This makes you different from most of the guys out there. Keep in mind that when you are approach them you are not trying to get a date. All you are trying to do is start a conversation. If things go well then try to get a phone number or give them yours. On average I talk to about 25 new women a week. I have only dated about 4, but have made many new friends along the way. Bottom line don't be afraid to approach a girl who's wondering around alone. Just watch for the ring and don't come off too strong.
2006-11-30 19:00:50 · answer #1 · answered by jmethod81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say ignore clubs altogether - like most blokes out there I have tried to pull in clubs and pubs, but the fact is that even if you do manage to meet a young lady in one of these places, she is not likely to be looking for anything special.
Follow your own interests and chances are you'll bump into other people who share those interests. If one of those is a girl, you already have something in common.
2006-11-30 18:50:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ben..try to meet mean girls on Myspace.com. They are all over the place. Now..about the good heads thing..I am afraid you're probably out of luck on Myspace.
You could always try the Library or University?
2006-11-30 18:50:06 · answer #3 · answered by Toolooroo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have done it at school. Try going to alumni parties or joining a book club or something. I run into the same problem, but luckily i'm in school so it's a matter of waiting. Try overseas, though, Russians and Germans are extraordinarily smart and very attractive.
2006-11-30 18:51:24 · answer #4 · answered by Julio Cesar C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
University,library's,business conferences.It kinda depends whether you mean good head on her shoulders as meaning level headed or you mean intelligent
2006-11-30 18:51:49 · answer #5 · answered by snikleback 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strip club.
2006-11-30 18:49:24 · answer #6 · answered by b_dubs_3030 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go out looking for it. Just live your life, become successful and meet them as a matter of course.
2006-11-30 18:49:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're starting with CLUBS ... :-) ... are you REALLY looking for a good head on their shoulders ?? :-)
2006-11-30 18:52:19 · answer #8 · answered by mokui 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anywhere is a good place like where ever there are girls.
2006-11-30 18:49:54 · answer #9 · answered by Styliztik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mean girls? How about www.jailbirds.com?
2006-11-30 19:05:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋