My boyfriend doesn't pay atentions on me, doesn't give me gifts, doesn't take me anywhere, doesn't have nice details with me, he is allways late and never calls...it's anything wrong with me, I am good looking; I am a model, I like sports, I like videogames, I can have a nice chat for a while an Intelligent chat, I allways giv ehim gifts, I allways try to take him to nice places, I am easy going, I don't ask much, I think I am everything guys like, sexy, nice face, nice body, smart, funny, ...I like sports , videogames, etc etc... Is not that I am trying to be like that, I am like that!...my bf wont leave me but he can't make a call! AM I DOING SOMETHING WRONG OR IS HE JUST AN IDIOT?
2006-11-30 18:36:28 · 28 answers · asked by N.T. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It doesn't sound like he cares and you must be the idiot to think that you're intelligent and to stay with such a person.
I shudder at your opening, "My boyfriend doesn't pay atentions on me."
2006-11-30 18:38:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is an idiot. He doesn't realize what a catch you are. If he continues to treat you bad, don't be an idiot too and stay with him. He's not on your level if you're treating him like you really care and he still doesn't make an effort to be involved in the relationship more. Find a guy that respects you.
2006-11-30 18:42:45 · answer #2 · answered by Ray 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be you only want him to be a more caring person, don't focus only on the beautiful characterisics you have, they are great though, try to find out the negative points also.
About your bf, if he is not too busy to be a more loving person and call you often, or having big troubles...then YES he must be a big idiot!!
2006-11-30 18:45:28 · answer #3 · answered by Smart Warrior 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
might want to you call your father and mom idiots? might want to you call your little ones idiots? Why is it alright to call your boyfriend an fool - no matter if it fairly is purely in a playful way? i imagine of it fairly is the numerous stupid challenge each and every human being can do - less than the cover of being "playful" - is to call one yet another a acceptance it fairly is demeaning and degrading to the in straight forward words receiving that statement. Its downplays that particular's ability to reason and also that particular's intelligence. both you're putting forward it to be sneaky and exceedingly advise it, or you're putting forward it to make relaxing of human beings that're a lot less smart than you and reinforcing that act and habit through labeling one yet another this through what you do in a mocking jest and shaggy canines tale. i do now no longer approve of it, and through your asking this question - i imagine of your boyfriend did now no longer both. it extremely is disrespectful, and it makes the diverse "intense" be wide awake, now no longer intense - and the excuse might want to then be, "it fairly is purely to be playful / it fairly is purely for relaxing." How unfair might want to that be? now no longer each and every little ingredient is perfect and video games.
2016-10-08 01:15:36 · answer #4 · answered by prinsh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is an idiot. He is letting a perfectly good relationship go. But believe it or not, my last girl friend broke up with me because she said i was too nice to her gave her too much stuff, not to mention flowers for no special occasion. I got labeled for being too caring? Sounds like me and you should be togather we share the same oppions! lol well in your case i would just drop him like a hot potato. good luck miss
2006-11-30 18:46:02 · answer #5 · answered by us_pilot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make it too easy on him.
H eobviously doesn't care for you as much as you do him.
Your best bet would be to get out now and quit wasting your time. There is somebody out there that will do right by you but as long as you stay with this guy you'll be missing out on the right guy.
2006-11-30 18:41:22 · answer #6 · answered by mistique1818 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you got an idiot on your hands! haha. Honestly if you've got it all and he doesn't realize it, leave him. You deserve somebody that will love you for all of the little things that you do, and will do the little things back. So...my email adress is...haha. j/k.
Don't stay in a relationship if he doesn't appreciate you for everything you do and are.
that is all...lol
2006-11-30 18:41:11 · answer #7 · answered by sirpunchalot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should he leave when you do so much for him- stop that- he is just using you- the wrong you are doing is doing too much and not receiving- sounds like he could care less- make better choices and move slowly-take care-D
2006-11-30 18:43:05 · answer #8 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense but maybe you are the idiot for being with a jackass like that! Move on and find yourself a real man, you deserve it! Good Luck!
2006-11-30 18:39:19 · answer #9 · answered by xSilverStarx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have told all your behaviours. Sometimes he don't like those behaviours. but i think its good if u talked with him about this problum straightly. don't talk harsh. talk with him nicely. may be he can change. if not u can get a answer from him. may be he like u if u change ur behaviours. so better talk with him openly. all the best. take care of ur self.
2006-11-30 18:43:25 · answer #10 · answered by visaka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋