I was with this guy once and i think Im over him but every now and again I dream of him or see him and I cant get him out of my head. Im with someone else now, and I love him with every bit of me but why does this other guy keep getting into my head?
2006-11-30 17:47:21 · 13 answers · asked by jam 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I definitely think it's possible to have strong feelings for more than one person. We're only human. But I think when that happens we have to make a concious decision about who we want to be with, and then move on. Like, weigh their good and bad qualities, and see how you really feel about them deep down inside. When you've made your decision, after considering every single aspect of it, then move on. Don't what if, don't wonder how it would have been. You CAN develop feelings for more than one person, but I don't think it's fair to keep dwelling on that if you're with someone. Attraction happens, lust happens, feelings happen, but that doesn't mean we have to act on it if we're in a solid relationship. Good luck! :o)
2006-11-30 17:52:47 · answer #1 · answered by Emo B 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Guess you are not over him (the old guy) as yet. New love is often compared to the old yard stick. But in time, this will pass. The more you delve on this issue more it will keep cropping up and affect your relationship with the new guy.
2006-12-01 02:04:05 · answer #2 · answered by apvcq 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You think you're over him but you are actually not! If you are happy and so in love with your new bf, then the best thing is to just move on honey! I know it takes time to heal, but just think that there is no point of living in the past! Wish you the best of luck! =)
2006-12-01 01:52:30 · answer #3 · answered by Mommy♥of2 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you love this person but you're not over your ex completely yet ..I dont think you love both the same ,the fact is we can love many people but we can only be in love with one..so you must love one of these guys but you are in love with only one of them ..you must know which one though.
2006-12-01 01:52:36 · answer #4 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, u can b in love with 2 guys at the same time, and you won't knwo who to choose, each one has a special place in your heart, in their own special ways.
2006-12-01 01:54:30 · answer #5 · answered by kittenheart 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The answer is NO, you are only In Love with one of them.
And if you think about it you'll know which one.
But make up your mind and quit wasting the others time.
2006-12-01 01:52:02 · answer #6 · answered by mistique1818 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he must of meant something to you at one time.
Maybe more then you thought?
Or it just might have been the "idea" of him.
2006-12-01 01:55:29 · answer #7 · answered by MedicineWoman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think its possible..im struggling right now with that too
2006-12-01 01:49:54 · answer #8 · answered by baronbabec14 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course it's possible, that's the main reason people cheat.
2006-12-01 01:55:05 · answer #9 · answered by jonsinher 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What's your problem lady? Don't you know that I'm only doing this for the points?
2006-12-01 01:50:24 · answer #10 · answered by Sydney 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋