I think women are fickle because they complain there are no decent guys left( atleast that seems to be my perception) and yet when they do run into a decent man who treates them like a real lady, the women gets bored with the guy and takes him forgranted.
I thought this problem only happened to me, because of something I was lacking. But I have a friend who has the whole package. He has good looks, money, good education, cultured, and speaks many languages.Its easy for him to initially pick women up but over time when women discover how well he treats them, they lose interest in him. Which is the same problem I am having. It seems like you have to treat women like crap to keep them around. What do you all think?
2006-11-30 17:42:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some women appreciate when men are real gentleman with them.Others women had not a clue,not idea how to deal with good men.
2006-11-30 17:47:28 · answer #1 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think so many people are ruined in this world because of dating the wrong people. You are meeting the wrong girls, just because they are not appreciating you means there is absolutely, positively nothing wrong with you. Those women are the ones with issues, if they can't accept a good man, they don't deserve either of you. Maybe you both are attracted to the wrong girls, the ones who play games or are so used to abuse from men they just can't handle the good guys. Do you really want a lady that likes to be treated badly? Are you really that kind of person, I don't think so!!! So many people have issues, just don't take it personal their lack of appreciating you, it's just not worth it. Please don't stop being who you are, there are good women who will love you. Best of luck to you in this crazy dating world... good women are out there and you will find her...
2006-12-01 01:54:38 · answer #2 · answered by Martini Babee 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It was like I told my sons when they grew up, Do to the fact you were born male, you are cursed for the rest of your lives!
I went through a period on you statements! I gave over time, five woman precisely what they wanted in all things! And based on that I concluded that they really have no concept as to what they really want. I walked away from them, I assume that they did not know what they lost until they lost it as they each tried hard to come back!
I have a firm rule, I don't go back for seconds! Women seem to rate themselves much higher than they really are. They don't seem to do reality checks in the real world. They seem to have their own reality in make believe! That seems to cost them much and they don't realize it!
2006-12-01 01:54:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi JC,
You just answered your own question. Yes, women like the bad boys who mistreat them. If you have gotten tired of treating women good and then getting mistreated by them, then maybe it time that you tried doing things differently. You need to practice a different way of treating women.
Girls really go for guys who are self confident. The nice guys don't come off like that. guys try too hard to please them. Girls like the thrill of the chase too.
Also, you need to check out the Tom Leykis radio show to learn more about what you should do. You definitely need to learn a little Leykis-101 to get more women in your life. Find out if this show is broadcast in your area. Here's his web site:
http://www.blowmeuptom.com
I hope that this helps you. Good luck and happy hunting.
--Rick
2006-12-01 01:54:32 · answer #4 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
women are pretty much d00ders with the hardware of the opposite sex. how much guys typically think about sex, they do too. how fickle guys are? they're just as fickle. what makes the difference is not gender, but a person-by-person discernment. each person has different moral standards independent of gender.
2006-12-01 02:02:47 · answer #5 · answered by phtokhos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats not it really it sounds like you just overact a the nice guy bit which is kinda weird to be around just go for a happy medium and you will get your lady.
2006-12-01 01:53:30 · answer #6 · answered by Jenna A 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Why do you think they let guys slap 'em around and verbally abuse 'em? Coz they like it! It's just how they are.
2006-12-01 01:48:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
trash likes trash
2014-05-11 14:19:25 · answer #8 · answered by Rogue Process 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋