there's this girl who hit on me and gave me her number. she's a really nice girl but whenever i call her to see if she wants to do something she's always buisy. do you think she is just not into me anymore? i mean she doesn't even call me back.
2006-11-30 17:42:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am very busy also, I have 5 hours of homework a night! I sometimes did not call them either. She may not like you anymore, she could find time to just say hi.......
2006-11-30 17:44:07 · answer #1 · answered by *~*~*~* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women usually don't say yes to the first invite when they give their number. But you can improve your chances of a yes if you have a specific plan in mind. Don't ask if she wants to "do something" or have coffee or dinner. Tell what you're planning to do and invite her to come along. It can be as simple as going clothes shopping (most women loooove to be asked for advice from men in this department). Or it can be a group outing with friends (even better since there's less pressure). Whatever it is, be specific. And if she's busy, go do it anyway and tell her about it the next time you talk to her. The less it seems like you need her, the more interested she'll be.
Also, bear in mind that she may have changed her mind. I'd say give it one more try, then move on.
2006-11-30 17:47:03 · answer #2 · answered by Guelph 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the last time a girl gave me her number i didn't bother calling her. When I saw her again this time she asked for my number and she kept calling me. I did exactly what you just stated about the girl. I was always "BUSY" and I never returned her calls. BECAUSE I WAS NOT INTERESTED IN HER. BUT she seemed to like that kind of "challenge" . maybe she was frustrated that i was a guy who really could careless.
2006-11-30 17:47:02 · answer #3 · answered by chaseki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she gave u her number ,she's interested. She probably is just busy, give it a little while longer before you give up. She could have easily just given u a bogus number . The fact that she gave you the real one, shows that she really liked u.
2006-11-30 17:50:58 · answer #4 · answered by CLAIRE KC1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably read "The Rules." The Rules say don't ever call a man and rarely return his calls. When he calls you pretend like you are busy and don't stay on the phone long. And only accept a date if he asks you four days in advance.
2006-11-30 17:44:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that if she really liked you she would find one hour to go out with you. Sometimes girls give their numbers to guys without even having an intention to hang out with them.
2006-11-30 17:50:33 · answer #6 · answered by Alina C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she likes you, she would have picked up the phone and called for 5 mins just to say hi! Sorry dear, but maybe she was looking for fun that one time! don't waste your time on her!
2006-11-30 17:46:48 · answer #7 · answered by Mommy♥of2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't call back, I'd suggest you move on. She's got something else occupying her time. Don't call her for awhile, play hard to get, she may call you. In the dating world.... you have to be hard to get, don't call her, if she's interested she will call you.
2006-11-30 17:45:21 · answer #8 · answered by Martini Babee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her and ask her the same quesition. (too busy to return a phone call?)
2006-11-30 17:51:53 · answer #9 · answered by sdbrian92108 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably she is not into you anymore. You should go with your gut feeling though.
2006-11-30 17:44:15 · answer #10 · answered by alegna_2004 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋