I have this g/f of mine who started seeing this man about a month ago,actually not even a month.
She first phoned him,and ever since than he has been phoning her.First it was one call a day,than 2 calls a day,than 3,now sometimes 4 calls a day.
I don`t know if I shoud be concerned for my friend,or is he jsut really into her?
Or is this more serious than what meets the eye?
thank you to all who reply :)
2006-11-30 17:16:36 · 9 answers · asked by sunflower2052002 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Does she object to the phone calls? If she doesn't then you should mind your own business. My last gf and i would talk maybe a dozen times a day, but then we were in a long distance relationship too. It was nice to have her call just to say hi or i love you. Could you possibly be a little jealous of all the attention she is getting?
2006-11-30 17:19:47 · answer #1 · answered by Jim V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you should direct your concerns to her. She is after all the one dating him. Does she tell you that she thinks that he is crazy? What are the reasons behind his calls? Is he checking up on her, or just calling to say hi? I wish I had more friends as thoughtful as you are. However, I don't see any reason for you to be concern about her since you don't seem to know the circumstances behind his calls. Now, if he's incessantly calling her at anytime between the hours of midnight to 4a.m., then perhaps I might be a little worried.
2006-12-01 01:25:44 · answer #2 · answered by haithere_us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didnt get a phone call once a month from a long distance relationship he like her and expressing his interest gradually
2006-12-01 01:20:40 · answer #3 · answered by zizi4me22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Potential stalker. A bit too much for so early in a relationship. I'd be a little creeped out.
2006-12-01 01:21:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's according to whose calling. If it is someone your'e crazy about,
let em call. If you are concerned about your gf's safety,ask her and if she says she's cool with "call boy", don't worry about.
2006-12-01 01:38:11 · answer #5 · answered by CLAIRE KC1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well is it a freaky kind of conversation? or just a regular thing?
it's really annoying if your friend got loads of work, but if she's cool with it, it's cool to have as many as you want!
just think what would this guy be if they are really dating? a psychopath?
bbrrrriiiiinnnnggggg.....
2006-12-01 01:21:07 · answer #6 · answered by jeung_gorgeous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants it to be more serious.
I wouldn't be concerned if he is just calling her. If he is harassing her, now that would be another story.
2006-12-01 01:20:25 · answer #7 · answered by maamu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's clingy.
If she doesn't care then don't worry. In fact, don't worry at all unless she tells you she's worried, or he shows up naked in her bushes with a machete.
2006-12-01 01:19:53 · answer #8 · answered by Cthon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes just really into her
2006-12-01 01:21:19 · answer #9 · answered by baronbabec14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋