how do you find courage to love yourself when you feel there is no hope left in you to live a happy life?

Question

i did alot of stupid things in my life and i don't think i can turn around and get back on track again. I don't know what's wrong with me, i can't even cry it out. i just stare at the wall sometimes and feel the disgust of sin that has become one with my flesh.

Answer 1

I know how you feel. I've been there. I think most of us have at one point or another. I guess the what brought me throught it was the thought, "If God brings you to it, He will bring you through it.". I realized that God has a plan for me, as he does for everyone, I just don't know yet what it is.
I know that he has a plan for you, too, and that without having made the mistakes that you've made in your life, you wouldn't be who you are today or who you will become tomorrow.
Even if you don't believe in God, you must believe that there is something more that you must do in your life, or with your life, and rest assured that tomorrow will be better.
Think positive and hang tough,
Somebody loves you.

Answer 2

Help other people.

Everywhere, every day.

When driving in your car .. show unexpected courtesy.
If you can walk, park further away from the door... someone else might need the closer spot.
In the grocery store, let the person with 3 items go in front of you.
Hold the door for someone.
Smile at a stranger.

Volunteer.
If you have never helped the Special Olympics, you should. It is a special treat. It will clearly remind you that your life is less "off track" than you think... and will help you recognize how good you have things.

If you have never helped build a house with Habitat for Humanity, call your local chapter. Find out when they need help painting, or pulling weeds, etc. And ask them if you can go to a dedication ceremony. It will change you.

You can turn it around.

You just need to start.

Try it.

3 Weeks.

You will be amazed at how good it will make you feel.

And your sins will be forgiven.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

It sounds like you are going through depression, and Satan wants to magnify it. Know this, that you are a child of God, and He loves you dearly. The repentance process is a humbling process, and if you are at the first step it will border on depression for a while, because change is difficult. You have a purpose in life, and you have the support of Heavenly Father who loves you. Sometimes prayer is more like a little child crying. You can do it.

Answer 5

I can identify with you. It's in times like these that I thought alot about my life, my faith, my acts and my words. And there's one big conclusion I come to.

I can't live without God. That's why I cry out loud to Him and open the Bible and feel comforted and peaceful after that. It seems to quell all misunderstanding and incomprehensibility of worldly matters.

Now I'm asking God for His Spirit to fill me that I can feel His presence anywhere and everywhere. I've sinned too, you know, but Jesus is the Way, the Truth and the Life. And I believe that. That's why I choose to believe my sins are forgiven everytime I sincerely humble myself before God and confess my sins, asking Him for forgiveness. Sometimes I can hear Him comforting me and I just break down in tears acknowledging my unworthiness. And He gently dries my eyes, assuring me of His love.

Man, if I knew your name I'd pray to God for you, cos' I really know how it feels. Remember, YOU ARE PRECIOUS IN GOD's SIGHT! Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

May the peace and love of Christ Jesus be with you, for it transcends all understanding. God bless you! :)

Answer 6

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The Apocalypse Of Saint John
Chapter 22


11 He that hurteth, let him hurt still: and he that is filthy, let him be filthy still: and he that is just, let him be justified still: and he that is holy, let him be sanctified still. 12 Behold, I come quickly; and my reward is with me, to render to every man according to his works. 13 I am Alpha and Omega, the first and the last, the beginning and the end. 14 Blessed are they that wash their robes in the blood of the Lamb: that they may have a right to the tree of life, and may enter in by the gates into the city. 15 Without are dogs, and sorcerers, and unchaste, and murderers, and servers of idols, and every one that loveth and maketh a lie.
16 I Jesus have sent my angel, to testify to you these things in the churches. I am the root and stock of David, the bright and morning star. 17 And the spirit and the bride say: Come. And he that heareth, let him say: Come. And he that thirsteth, let him come: and he that will, let him take the water of life, freely.

Answer 7

This is a very difficult thing to overcome but it is very important that you trust God in this regard. For a very good reason the essence of the law covenant can be summed up in 2 commandments: 1)Love Jehovah your God with your whole heart mind and strength and 2)Love your neighbor as yourself. If you do these things, you will realize that God loves you and wants you to turn to him so that he can help you to turn around and he can bless you in doing good instead of bad. Also, you will be at least as concerned with others feelings of despair as you are with your own--this will motivate you to learn to give of yourself, thus producing the sort of works that will be in harmony with God's will for your life--and therefore, will help you to have the clean conscience that you desire so much. I once felt much the same as you but I am very happy to say that drawing close to God is the perfect solution. Do not give up. E-mail me anytime and I will be happy to help in any way I can. God bless you for reaching out--now, reach out to him as well.

Answer 8

You have ONE life to live. You can either spend the rest of it being unhappy, regretting your past mistakes - or, you can let go of your past mistakes, and focus on having a good future, with a chance for happiness. It's NOT always easy, but it is possible.

Answer 9

You have to take it day by day. Don't look at the big picture just look at now. Pray, pray, pray! Ask God to take the pain and He will. I was in the same boat 5 yrs ago and i am great now. Have faith.He heals.Good luck and God bless

Answer 10

You have a mental disorder called depression. It is treatable!