i cant sleep at night, and i keep thinking of my boyfriend...
2006-11-30 17:03:22 · 10 answers · asked by janloro 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry, really sorry, I know that this is hard. Despite what people may think, when you break up with someone you really care about it is like having to deal with a death of sorts. Perhaps not the deah of a loved one, but the death of the life you were going to share with this person. And it hurts, and it hurts, and then when you think it might be okay, it hurts some more. Grieving takes time, and there isn't much you can do to quicken the process. The pain you feel is a natural healing process, although I know those words will do near nothing to console you at the present. But I do promise you that eventually your mind will start to forget some of those little painful details, and you will heal. You will see joy in the world again. You will be ready to fall in love again. But it will take time.
In the meantime, the best thing that you can do is focus on yourself. You are still there for you, and you know what makes you happy. Build yourself up, do the things you love to do, pursue interests you may not have had time for when you were with him. Enjoy your freedom. It may not be easy going at first, but self love is the best healing agent around. So give yourself some love, get out there and hang out with your friends, and take whatever comfort you can in the fact that time will pass, and so too shall the worst of the heartache.
2006-11-30 17:12:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax and give it time...tomorrow will be better...you will see....then the next day is better then yesterday and so on.....try not to jump into another relationship right away if you feel lonely.
Always spin negative things into positive and move on.
Ohh...one more thing....avoid all contact with him....so refrain from calling...stalking.....e-mailing an so on....far away from the eyes = far away from the heart...not saying that you are like that but people sometimes do wierd things when they lose someone....
just give it time...you will see....
2006-12-01 01:13:56 · answer #2 · answered by sdbrian92108 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand what you are going through. Its very hard to get on with your life when you break up with someone you care about so dearly. I know that it feels like you will never recover, but trust me, you will. It will take time(usually 3-6 months on average) but you will start to feel better. If things get too much to handle, you need to talk with someone. Don't shutdown completely. Find someone to confide in. Hang in there!!!
2006-12-01 01:12:08 · answer #3 · answered by grocerygirl_24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another one!
Broken heart does not have a real meaning. Depressed has.
Do exercises, run, jump, swim, dance, and go parties!
Cheer and Laugh!
I am sure that when your ex bf see you would fall in his knees!
Becuase the men loving 'happy' girls; 'sad' women do not have any business with men!
2006-12-01 01:10:05 · answer #4 · answered by Iranian Amigo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date other guys, spend time with friends, put away anything he gave you and remember what a jerk he was for leaving you. Its hard to think about going out with anyone else, i know. No one measures up to the one who got away but give them a chance, eventually you will find that one who is special and deserves your love and trust. Good luck
2006-12-01 01:10:09 · answer #5 · answered by Jim V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely I agree... I just recently went through the same thing...and I found that spending time with my friends and family (staying busy) really worked for me.... good luck ; )
Try to smile
2006-12-01 01:11:45 · answer #6 · answered by Let it go~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cry. cry as hard as you possibly can. Watch a chick flick. Drink something bubbly and eat ice cream. Then, go out dancing or bowling with friends. Get your mind off him. Talk to your closest friend about it and cry some more. So sorry, hun.
2006-12-01 01:06:56 · answer #7 · answered by iambic_chatterbox 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
IT VERY NORMAL TO STILLCARING FEELING FOR SOME ONE
THAT YOU WERE WITH. BUT IT WILL TAKE SOME TIME TO
GET OVER HIM BUT START DOING THINGS WITH FRIEINDS
GO OUT . KEEP YOUR SELF BUSY WITH THINGS THAT
MAKE YOU HAPPY. THEN YOU WILL SEE THAT IT WILL
GET MUCH BETTER AS TIME GOES BY. JUST TAKE ONE'
STEP AT A TIME. YOUR HEART WILL MEND. JUST HANG
IN THERE. GOOD LUCK.
2006-12-01 01:09:41 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Occupy your time throw all the memories you have away. Before you go to bed Ask god to clear those memories away if not you will lose sleep and believe me hes not losing any on you so why give him power.;..
2006-12-01 01:07:09 · answer #9 · answered by zizi4me22 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the main reason that you started love to him and he is very lucky please tell to him that i love u and marry you, then you and he will sleep soundly.
2006-12-01 01:16:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋