My friend is upset cuz her boyfriend is very friendly and calls other girls sweet and compliments them a lot/teases them says i love you your my best buddy and hugs them. But isn't he just being really friendly?
2006-11-30 17:00:47 · 24 answers · asked by genuine♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I believe this to be flirting and yes Iwould be bothered by it because my ex was this way and I think it showed a lack of respect 4 me.I didn't hug other guys or call them by affectionate names and I wanted to be treated with the same respect.If the situation were reversed he probably would'nt approve of her behaving this way with other guys.
2006-11-30 17:06:29 · answer #1 · answered by lonesome4calle11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that isn't any longer undesirable that is truly no massive deal I went out with one lady for just about 6 months and we didn;t care if we hugged human beings the in straight forward words problem change into if she delivered up someone she idea loved me i does no longer hug that chum to respect how she feels if it maintains to malicious program you you ought to do exactly an same :)
2016-10-08 01:12:07 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be a little upset about the "I love you" comments, however friendly they may be. But hugging? No problem. It's friendly. I think she's justified in being concerned.
2006-11-30 17:03:33 · answer #3 · answered by iambic_chatterbox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe there is a fine line between boyfriend and friend. I think he is out of line. Sometimes the things that draw you to them are the exact things that will drive you apart such as being really friendly...
2006-11-30 17:04:23 · answer #4 · answered by TS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeh right, just real friendly. That is just his excuse to cover up what he is doing. Touching members of the opposite sex when in a relationship is disrespectful to the other party. It is better to keep you hands, hugs, and kisses on the person who you are with.
2006-11-30 17:02:48 · answer #5 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some people are natrual flirts...usually harmless. But it would probably bother me a little bit. The physical thing would get old. She may need to break him down and tell him she is the only one getting the hugs.
2006-11-30 17:03:01 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like those types of guys, personally. She'd probably be better off with someone else.
It's always a good thing that people should listen to their intution. If she's upset, it's not for lack of a reason.
2006-11-30 17:04:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would keep an eye on him, it would bug me a bit...ok more than just a bit, it would really bug me but if it was limited to just hugging and I didn't suspect he was cheating I would just keep a close eye on him and if ever it went any further than just hugging I would dump him in a flash!
2006-11-30 17:04:06 · answer #8 · answered by Isabella's Mommy Expecting #2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really dont like the thought... if the guy is serious with your friend.. then he will minimize his being sweet to his girl friends. He should take the consequence to put a gap of being affectionate to his friends because some will think that it's flirting already...
2006-11-30 17:06:15 · answer #9 · answered by icon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jump in there and hug her too. Call it a group hug. After a while he may get the picture and stop it.
2006-11-30 17:07:04 · answer #10 · answered by fe2bsho 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋