im a big guy and im like 6'1 about 250 and like i havent had a gf in 2 years but i have been laid in the past year and it seems theres these 5 girls who hover around me and stuff and flirt and do some touchie touchie and i aske thim if they like me and they say no so im jsut wondering does size matter in weight cuz i am called a pimp and a manwhore alot for those of u non smart people them r compliments to a guy
2006-11-30 16:56:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are a perfect size. The reason you haven't had a girlfriend is because all the girls around you see you with these pretty girls and they probably think you are off the market. Learn to be yourself and gain some confidence, that's what women like in a guy. Not what size they are. And you are not a big guy.
2006-11-30 16:58:47 · answer #1 · answered by Serinity4u2find 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These girls are using you first of all. You probably dote attention on them and they like it, they just don't want to be with you. And I'm probably the only woman that will tell you this straight up but yes size matters. Differently though. Some women are chubby chasers. My husband was skinny when we got married and I have spent the last three years fattening him up a bit. Sounds like you may be spending too much time with superficial girls though. Try going out on the town and seeing if you can hit it off with someone who is actually interested in you and not their own egos.
2006-11-30 17:01:03 · answer #2 · answered by Sissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since when did being called a pimp and manwhore become such a compliment? I am smart and I think just the opposite.
2006-11-30 16:58:49 · answer #3 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a lesbian, and I can tell you that there's nothing wrong with you! I think guys with lovehandles are more attractive than hardbodies or thin guys. Lots of pretty women out there will love you - especially if you know how to treat a woman - great sex, good listener, don't cheat... Just be you and be a good catch! If she is shallow, then to hell with her!
2006-11-30 17:00:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
*sigh* Yes, sadly- weight matters. As rude as it sounds. Looking at it from a natural standpoint- being overweight says "I don't take care of my body; therefore, I can't take care of you." to a woman, instinctively. Good luck with the touchy-chicks. I think you already know what kind of girls they are.
2006-11-30 16:58:53 · answer #5 · answered by iambic_chatterbox 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have quite an expansive vocabulary- for those of you "non-smart" people.
Yea, girls love blubber way more than 6 packs. They put those muscle models on tv and stuff because they feel sorry for them. What girls wish is that guys who workout would just go to Wendy's.
2006-11-30 16:59:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i imagine at the same time as human beings are youthful they quite like skinny human beings, boys or ladies, too a lot impacts from the media. yet as we improve up (no longer each man or woman) some persons also seem for different features like personalities, how a lot we are able to relate in our conversations, pastimes, their careers and the introduction will change into part of the image and under no circumstances the most important element! There are those who nonetheless purely bypass for looks! young ones are frequently keen about weight, been there performed that! My husband's body structure absolutely appears like a polar bear, so very cuddly and under no circumstances skinny in any respect! yet he has a amazing smile, superb white the teeth, smells outstanding, and intensely seen. he's taking reliable care of me! every time i imagine of his reliable features no longer that he has no flaws even I in many situations get different adult men pursuing me, I refuse, convinced it truly is love!
2016-11-28 03:06:40 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
size doesn't matter for me but then again yeah b/c you can die from being overweight and i don't want to lose that person so yeah
2006-11-30 17:01:09 · answer #8 · answered by anna_banana♥LALakers. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no size does not matter (well size does not matter to me) every girl is different!!!so it all depends on the girl!!!
2006-11-30 16:59:24 · answer #9 · answered by socerchic2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like men that are big. Not obese or unable to walk. Just bigger than me.
2006-11-30 16:57:54 · answer #10 · answered by IMHO 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋