I realized I am 'addicted to attention' from guys. I have 3 guys calling me and I don't really take any of them seriously-when they don't call...I start to miss their calls and wonder whats goin on- Even though half the time they irritate me when we ARE talking...
Please offer your sincere advice as to what I can do to overcome this 'addiction' I guess I just really do like all the attention I get from it...Help :( I dont actually WANT to like it...and "use" them for their attention they give me.
2006-11-30 16:50:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
in my 20's...
2006-11-30 16:57:27 · update #1
thanks for all ya'lls help-I am looking for a solution to actually "wanting" this attention though- i dont really like any of the 3 guys that much...just passing the time?
2006-11-30 16:58:44 · update #2
See professional advice. Its not uncommon, but not a problem that can be helped on the internet.
2006-11-30 16:52:51 · answer #1 · answered by freshbliss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't addicted to attention, you're just lonely. These guys either are not what you actually want or they are involved with other girls either way it's fine as long as everyone is up front with what the expectations are and safe sex is practiced and everyone is of a right age so on and so forth. You would be better off to spend the time looking for someone you really want to be with.
2006-11-30 16:55:36 · answer #2 · answered by Sissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We both want the 12-step procedure. i'm properly there with you! in certain situations i imagine that they must have some evil subliminal message that flashes as we examine out questions and solutions that motives us to keep coming again because, definite, i'm the following daily. definite, I admit it, i'm a Yahoo addict! I used to have a life. i ought to purely go on line each now and then. It took me 6 months to acquire 10,000 factors and attain element 6 notwithstanding i'm getting a honest type of "proper answer" awards because i attempt to be thorough, informative and a minimum of semi-exciting. Then, March 17th, I reached element 6 and became passionate about seeing basically how briskly i ought to attain element 7. Now my canines is able to divorce me; my family individuals and associates are planning an intervention; and that i'm the following questioning what i'll do to score some extra "proper answer" awards. unhappy, isn't it? because I already made it to indicate 7! yet I were given addicted attempting to get off element 6 and now I’m hooked. i'll't provide up notwithstanding I were given to indicate 7. that's like "Gee, if i'm getting some extra 'proper answer' awards then i'll attain 50,000 factors!" some human beings have a monkey on their again, we've a Yamster! Tenacious little rodent!
2016-10-16 11:19:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about just sticking to one guy that you really like and receiving all the attention from him. You have to put a stop before it gets out of hand and only YOU can control this "addiction" of yours. Good luck and best wishes......
2006-11-30 16:55:28 · answer #4 · answered by * TeXaS cHiCk * 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can only go for one or no one at all. you understand if you play fire you will get hurt. you might lose all of them on the same time so play it wisely. it is just the matter how you think. i m not saying you r wrong it just mind game that we played for centuries. you got choose wise before you get stared. hopwyou will find the one .
2006-11-30 16:56:53 · answer #5 · answered by aeeyo1314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Low self esteem.
2006-11-30 16:53:02 · answer #6 · answered by IMHO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend more time with them? You'll get over it, I'm sure.
2006-11-30 16:52:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hv a feeling that u r underage and having puppy loves. dump them all, kid.
2006-11-30 16:53:15 · answer #8 · answered by tsf_michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow how old are you, and you need to get over this, do you have female friends?
2006-11-30 16:55:32 · answer #9 · answered by latin bean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is just your age probably.
2006-11-30 16:52:40 · answer #10 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋