if u love a poor guy and a rich guy or girl the same wich would you choose.
2006-11-30 16:49:24 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Who is cuter?
2006-11-30 16:51:19 · answer #1 · answered by rollergirl 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Whichever I could see things working out with in the long run. There's no way I could choose someone based on money, I always just follow my heart, and if I REALLY loved 2 guys just as much as eachother - I suppose it would come down to how well our personalities get on - I mean you can love someone to bits and still argue like hell! LOL. Maybe it would be money-related if there was a particular reason for their wealth (or lack of it) - I mean if the rich guy got rich by selling drugs or stolen goods, or ripping people of, then give me the poor guy any day... and similarly, if the reason the poor guy was poor was cause he was an addicted gambler or druggie and spent all his money that way, or is a complete bum who doesn't work for no particular reason (if someone works in an incredibly low paid job which they're passionate about though, eg an author which doesn't happen to be a best-seller, then that wouldn't be a prob) - then I'd go for the wealthier guy... and if they were both rather messed up like that, then God, make me fall in love with someone else! Please!
2006-12-01 00:57:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha. That is a tough question. Say they're identical twins- personality and everything. I'd go with the rich guy. Not BECAUSE he's rich, but because he has a better future for my/our children and if something were to ever happen to me, I would know that he could take care of me or take care of the kids.
Other than that, it would really depend on the guy.
2006-12-01 00:54:08 · answer #3 · answered by iambic_chatterbox 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would pick the one who treats me with respect and is a bit of fun to be with. The only problem with some rich people is that some are a bit over confident and up themself. But a problem with poor people well we might be living in a dumpster so I dont really know. Yes you are right it is a tough question
2006-12-01 00:55:09 · answer #4 · answered by Tinker Bell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends if the rich guy was trying to by me off, or if the poor guy was bumming off of me. If they were exactly the same, however, I'd chose the one who could best support me, physically and emotionally.
2006-12-01 00:56:17 · answer #5 · answered by Vae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how they treat me but i think generally the poorer man
just because more of chance i'd be more important then money to him ...money does not matter to me... i dont need feel i need financial security as much as i need love
also my current guy is in no way rich we are pretty far from it but i know i feel security even financial with him just because i know he'd do anything to provide me with what i need ...
i mean he would work everyhour he could and never relax to make my life better because as he told me when i offered to pick up a few more hours so he could have a day off he just said to me " i love you and the only thing that would make me happier then a day off today would be making your life even a little easier" then he just kissed my forhead and i knew it then i could pick my man over a rich man anyday he'd work liek a dog and never relax just to make me happy and take care of me and thats all that i think really matters..
i think as long as i felt the love was there i'd just follow teh love and my heart
2006-12-01 01:05:55 · answer #6 · answered by arei 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I WONT CHOOSE THE GIRL THAT IS OF HIGHER STATUS
If I am rich - I can choose rich or poor
If I am poor- I will only choose poor
:D That's the equality.. ha hah ah
2006-12-01 00:57:58 · answer #7 · answered by luckyumer 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hello Tony Romo... Well, the answer will really be up to you. The answer shouldn't be coming from us because it's "feelings" we're talking about here.
I know you both love the both of them but your love for them has different intensities and YOU should determine who from the two of them has that GREATER intensity that I'm talking about. But of course don't forget that there will be consequences, too, regarding whom you will choose. I hope you understood what I meant and somehow I was able to answer your question. ^__^
2006-12-01 00:56:28 · answer #8 · answered by kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's hard to love two people the same, as I think we love everyone different...but IF it WAS the same, then you would have to go to the next pro and con and if that was financial, naturally wouldn't you choose the rich guy? I would if all else was the same. :)
2006-12-01 00:52:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Definitely rich!!! Most marriage problems are due to arguments over bills.
2006-12-01 00:54:28 · answer #10 · answered by Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wont care about money only one the person who I loved the most
2006-12-01 01:06:42 · answer #11 · answered by Joho 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋