There is a girl that I like / want to go out with that works in the one of the stores at the mall I go to frequently because it is across the parking lot from where I work. Every time I go to this store I see if she is there and if she is I try to at least say "hi" to her. I know her name and but I doubt she knows mine. Other than that she really doesn't know who I am. I have a beanie baby type bear with my works logo on it that I want to give her. If this were you would that scare you or make you feel uncomfortable, that a guy that you pretty much don’t know is coming to see you and giving you something. I obviously don’t want her to be scared or anything like that. From your (a girls) point of view, what do you think I should say that gets my message across but at the same time wont come across to strong or scare her. All your ideas are welcomed. Thanks in advance for your opinion / comments.
2006-11-30 16:41:46 · 7 answers · asked by Mark A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she may already have a boyfriend, I'd take it slow first and talk to her a bit before giving her anything.
it also matters how old you are as well..
(Im 24 btw)
2006-11-30 16:45:00 · answer #1 · answered by ladyjeansntee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you mean the gift as a nice gesture, but if it were me, I would be totally freaked out to receive it. Like, "Mace and a knife in my purse at all times and mall security escorts to my car" freaked out. And if she's the only employee you say "hi" to when you go in, she's probably already a little nervous about you (especially if you are significantly older than she is), so try to expand your friendly efforts.
If you really want to get to know her better, go to the store when she's there and ask for her help in selecting a gift for your mother. It shows you're sweet and sensitive, and the conversation can go on as long as it takes to find that perfect gift (during which time you can mention that the one thing you mom really wants is for you to start seeing a nice girl and see if she's available :). The downside is, of course, that you actually have to buy whatever gift you end up picking out!
2006-11-30 16:54:21 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey I'm not a girl but I think that's a GREAT way to introduce yourself to her. you might scare her a little bit but if you're friendly and nice then why would she be scared by the kind of guy who gives beanie babies out? if she doesn't know who you are now, she will after this introduction. good luck!
2006-11-30 16:47:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. dont even know why you like her. bec she looks cute and u want her on bed? im sorry if im being rude but am just curious.
2. it really depends on what you want from her. if u only wanna be friends, act natural. maybe drop her a note with ur email. usually girls wont go out with you right away or call you. email may be more comfortable for the most part.
2006-11-30 16:46:06 · answer #4 · answered by tsf_michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm... if a guy came up to me randomly and gave me a gift, I would be kinda weirded out. Take her off guard and just be honest - tell her that you have wanted to say hi and introduce yourself for a while and finally got the courage to do it. She'll be pleasantly surprised at your honesty.
2006-11-30 16:46:49 · answer #5 · answered by zonagirl90 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should start by going up to her and introducing yourself. Tell her that she looks nice and that you love her smile. try small talk and ask her if she's free on her lunch break or for dinner. Take it slow, let her know who you are and the rest will happen at its own pace.
2006-11-30 16:47:22 · answer #6 · answered by grocerygirl_24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 27, a little over your age spec but here is my opinion. Get to know her before you offer gifts. At least make sure she knows your name.
2006-11-30 16:45:23 · answer #7 · answered by AMC615 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋