2006-11-30 16:32:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm not a cheater i just thought it would be nice to know what other people thought! i hate cheating personally but i know people that think it is cool. it's a big debate against me and someone else and i want to know what you think!
2006-11-30 16:42:59 · update #1
Legally, there is nothing in this World as "Cheating" that I be against or for it.
However, there is something that 'Legally' Called "Contract" , "Agreement", and "Company".
When two partners they meet each others, from the first day they are setting the "Terms" for their relationship.
IF, they agreed to have no sex with anyone, except the partner; then they should respect their "Condition";
IF, they agreed to have anu numbers of partners for sex; then where is the 'cheating'!
IN Canada that I am living; it was a news in TV, that a Husband agreed with his wife that she could have sex with her boyfriend in their HOME, if her boyfriend buys for him a pack of cigar per day!
SO, the husband and wife in front of camera said the same to police; while the boyfriend was present.
OR in Canada, many parents make agreement with their children to have sexual relation with them; and at the same time the children cann have their own boyfriend or girlfriend.
There was a 14 years bo in Toronto who said he had sexcual relationship with his father and he was free to have with others.
Therefore, it is exteremely important for 'partners' from first day, CLEARLY talk about everthing that they really are concern.
IF a gril does not like his boyfriend dance with other girls, must tell him ASAP. IF a boy does not like his grilfriend stay in a party and have fun with other boys, must tell her in the first meeting.
THEN, both are bounded with the 'agreement' that they made. Whoever breaking it, is guilty and there would be NO contract thereafter; or they must set new rules.
2006-11-30 16:53:23 · answer #1 · answered by Iranian Amigo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When we were first married, we screwed like bunnies and I was always happy. As time went on, she experienced some illnesses and has had a hysterectomy so now once a week is fine for her. Not for me. I'm 44 and can have sex every day, usually more than once. In order to keep my marriage together, I had to look elsewhere to gratify these needs. I noticed that once I started doing this, I stopped thinking about ways to leave her, I was more attentive, I enjoy cuddling more. I like being with her for who she is, rather than just a piece of as s. It was getting bad for me. I couldn't see through the lust. So to all the rest of the people that reply negatively, yes, cheating can be a good thing. I wouldn't recommend it to a 20 year old but at my age, I feel that I have good control over my emotions and can sense when there is going to be a problem. I make my expectations very clear, right up front and leave at the first hint of emotional involvement.
2006-11-30 16:42:09 · answer #2 · answered by fabrat1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you don't have a ring on your finger then you can do whatever you want. I do not agree with cheating but classify cheating. If your starting to date someone you don't know if that person is right for you so you date some more I don't consider that cheating but if your in a committed relationship and that would involve a promise ring or a engagement ring then your dating life is over and that one person is in your life forever if you chose to cross that boundry and began to date while committed then that would be cheating. All the women out there you can to purchase a promise ring or engagement ring for your significant other this is 2006.
2006-11-30 17:04:27 · answer #3 · answered by LoraBaby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I doubt that you would be looking for answers here if you weren't suffering from a guilty conscience. Yes, it is all that and then some mean to cheat. AGAINST IT. A promise is a promise. Either be a person of your word or remember that your word means nothing (nor does the affair).
2006-11-30 16:37:30 · answer #4 · answered by swarr2001 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cheating is WRONG in every way. Its very selfish because it is not that hard to tell someone "hey, i want to go have fun with other people or be with other people" You may think it will hurt them but your dishonesty will hurt them MUCH more. I'm still messed up long after a man cheated. Please spare people's feelings and be real.
2006-11-30 16:36:55 · answer #5 · answered by thicknsexy954 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IF U HAVE EVER REALLY BEEN IN LOVE W/ A PERSON U WOULD NOT ASK THIS QUESTION, CHEATING IS THE ULTIMATE BETRAYAL IN A COMMITED RELATIONSHIP...IF U ARE LEANING TOWARDS BEING W/ SOMEONE ELSE GET RID OF THE PERSON YOUR WITH...THEN U CAN BE GUILT FREE...BUT TO DISRESPECT SOMEONE WHO U ARE W/ BY CHEATING MAKES YOU A LIER,COWARD, HOE, ETC! SORRY MY OPINION U ASKED!
2006-11-30 16:40:43 · answer #6 · answered by kelly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is mean to cheat if you tell someone you will be faithful and you are not. If you want to be in a relationship with someone tell them what you want, whether it is seeing just them or seeing other people. It has to do with honesty and integrity, your word has to mean something.
2006-11-30 16:36:10 · answer #7 · answered by Serinity4u2find 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you feel the need to cheat, You shouldn't be with that person any longer.
You are wasting both your's and their time that could be spent finding or being with the right person.
Good luck!
2006-11-30 16:37:37 · answer #8 · answered by mistique1818 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it is mean to cheat. in essence you are rejecting your partner but you don't even have the nerve to tell them to their face that there is a problem in the relationship. cheating destroys people and relationships. this is coming from someone who cheated.....and hates herself for doing it.
2006-11-30 16:36:33 · answer #9 · answered by beckdawgydawg 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I DONT PERSONALLY DONT BELIEVE IN CHEATING. I FEEL
THAT IF YOU ARE UNHAPPY WITH YOUR SITUATION THEN
TALK ABOUT WHAT GOING ON. THEN TRY TO WORK IT OUT
OR GET OUT. THAT HOW I FEEL. CHEATING DOES NOT
DEAL WITH WHAT THE PROBLEM REALLY IS. JUST A
TEMPORARY FIX .
2006-11-30 16:38:20 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋