last night, my friend, her boyfriend and I were watching a movie together. Anyway, while she went to the bathroom, he leaned over and kissed me! I was so shocked!! I just grabbed my handbag, said goodbye to my friend and left. Now, I'm going to have to face him tommorrow. What do I do?
2006-11-30 16:10:47 · 21 answers · asked by jemm4president 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WOW. Definitely tell your friend before anyone else finds out and does it for you. I've had something similar happen to me, only i waited and she found out the hardest way possible - through someone else - everyone else but her best friend. The fact that the news came from someone else made it seem like i was trying to hide it. It ruined our friendship and I'm sure you don't want that to happen.
About facing him, I'd say confront him about it(only if you're comfortable) and maybe ask what he was thinking. Just handle the situation before it gets out of control and handles you. Good luck honey
2006-11-30 16:18:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go straight to my friend and tell her. She is obviously with a guy that doesn't care too much about her and she will end up being very hurt in the end by this guy, and if she finds out what he did after she will be really upset that u didn't tell her and she will feel u hid it from her for a reason. We have to be there and have our friend's back at all times. You don't owe him anything, forget about him and deal with your friend.
2006-11-30 16:15:53 · answer #2 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend will be mad if she finds out on her own. You must tell her if you respect her. If she gets mad at you then she is stupid and worthy of your honesty and true friendship. She should be mad at her boyfriend. 9 times out of ten, she will be mad and still be with the boyfriend and you will look like the bad person in the friendship so be prepared for that. Girls sometimes don't like to see the truth when they are in love with a man. They rather blame it on the girl. If you don't mind me asking, why did you allow him to kiss you? Do you like him?
2006-11-30 16:27:43 · answer #3 · answered by 112 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you get a chance to talk to him alone ask him why then tell him that he has to tell her or you will.BUT be aware that if she is blinded by love and he does not tell her she may believe whatever lies he tells her and not believe you.I wish you all the luck in the world and hope and pray your friend is wise enough to see she is with a loser and you are a true friend for telling her.
2006-11-30 16:20:59 · answer #4 · answered by feelingstupid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck yes! Tell your friend!!! Don't let this become one of those love triangle things. Doesn't matter if you like him or not. Tell her now. As for him, tell him that isn't cool and you're not that kind of girl. He obviously doesn't respect either of you. However, if he says it was a mistake, give him one more chance. Everyone deserves one more. Good luck.
2006-11-30 16:15:17 · answer #5 · answered by iambic_chatterbox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him a bastard and tell your friend what happened. She doesnt deserve to be dating someone who's playing around behind her back and deserves to be told... remember it wasnt you who did it... also he needs to know he cant get away with it. on the other hand, maybe they were wanting a bit fo a 3 way and she deliberately went out, and was spying form outside... either way, go talk to her.
2006-11-30 16:13:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THIS HAPPENED TO MY FRIEND NAMED REBECCA! what she did was awful! she never told her friend and once her friend found out, she was super pissed-off! If i were you i would tell your best friend, then both of you need to confront this boy whos a little rat and tell him about how its not okay, and have your best friend break up with him. Nothing is worse than having a grudge on your shoulder with your best friend.
2006-11-30 16:15:39 · answer #7 · answered by Miss USA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably tell your friend for one, if her boyfriend is kissing you thats not really good for her. And you should talk to him as well, ask him what he was thinking and tell him you're going to tell your friend.
2006-11-30 16:13:55 · answer #8 · answered by alexis0039 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur friend about tt behind him, but ask ur friend dont confront the truth with him as he will deny tt and say u are a liar tt have a cruch on him. paper cant wrapped something fishy.
2006-11-30 16:15:24 · answer #9 · answered by simplelife76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend that he kissed you, she is going to find out anyways.
2006-11-30 16:12:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋