i'm in a horrible relationship with this really clingy guy and i don' t know how to break it to him gently that i hate his f*cking guts! can someone help me to get out of relationship hell?
2006-11-30 16:08:19 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The clingers are the hardest. You don't have to break it to him gently. Just to be safe, have a good friend with you in sort of a public place and just tell him that you want to break the relationship with him. Let him know that he a great person but he is just not your type. Say you are sorry if he is hurt. Then get up with your friend and politely say good bye and leave. If you have any more problems with him get a restraining order on him and make sure you are always with a trusted friend for a while. Be safe ,think safe, you just never know. Someone who desperately clings like that -well you just never know what might happen. Next time feel a guy out a little more before a relationship goes too far and you won't get into this situation again. o.k.
2006-11-30 16:23:40 · answer #1 · answered by MJM 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you can never go wrong with honesty.
Just meet up with him, don't beat arround the bush and give him the news. But be gentile, don't tell him you hate his f****** guts to his face, even though you are thinking it and it may feel good to do so. If he wants reasons (which he most likely will) tell him you exactly why you are breaking it off; He was too clingy and you don't feel there is any chemistry between the two of you.
I think he will appreciate the honesty, but please don't be cruel to him. Right now, you are probably his world. Don't give him anything more to get over but just you.
Good luck
2006-11-30 16:13:54 · answer #2 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no!!!!! don't tell the truth.this type of guys think different. if u say clearly then also there is a chance him sticking more into u. u just start acting busy. say him u have some work if he calls for date and show him u r dating others . don't give him a single call. if meet leave saying u have an important work.Do all the things he doesn't like and if he asks act as if u don't know whats going on and do that again and again. its really hard to breakup with such guys. best of luck from me dear.
2006-11-30 16:27:55 · answer #3 · answered by rahul 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you are just going to have to tell him the relationship is over, i'm sorry but there is no easy way out. And i really don't think you hate his guts, if your having so much trouble breaking up with him
2006-11-30 16:11:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do you hate him so much? Is he bad to you? You need to tell him that you don't love him and never will. That worked for me when I was dating an obsessed guy. He finally got the picture. But try to be respectful when saying it. Or you can just do everything that turns him off and be gross, this way he will break up with you and you won't feel so guilty. Its fun too!
2006-11-30 16:12:26 · answer #5 · answered by 112 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him what you just told us....."I'm in a horrible relationship with you. You're clingy and I hate your freaking guts."
Simple.
Good luck!
:)
2006-11-30 16:11:32 · answer #6 · answered by Boodie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tellhim yu are sorry but you are just too dam pretty for his ulgy as and it's over.
Tell him honestly that you just got glassses and realize wht he looked like:):).
Tell him you thought he was gay and only wanted to test his fem side and he felled the straight test.
Tell him he should have picked his family better, and that you are scared of his genes.
Tell him you know dead people with more sex apeal than he has:).
Ask him if he would be interested in a double date with you grandmother and her brother.:)).
Get him drunk, dye his face darker and call immigraiton, tell them he a terrorist threat.
Ask his folks if they notice anything strange about him. Ask him if he noticed anything strange abou this family.
Ask him if his mom and dad are sister and brother.
2006-11-30 16:21:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is going to sound funny, but in my experiences, odd guys are super sensitive. and can be super sweet. They try too hard to get you to notice them. Bless their hearts !
I use to be around a guy that was very clingy. He was real sweet, but as you say, odd. I also feel like they have a short temper.
My opinion is...break it off, but be careful not to set him off.
2006-11-30 16:15:30 · answer #8 · answered by flyinghawk0727 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yeah, just tell him you dont think its working out. dont tell him you hate him, but if you get it out of the way now before you say something you'll regret it will be much easier. you probably want to keep a baseball bat to hand though, it's the clingy weird ones that tend to be serial killers. you don't want to wake up and find he's amputated your arms and legs and left you tied up in his basement.... (although with no arms or legs I dont really see the need for the tying up myself.)
2006-11-30 16:11:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
My boyfriend is pretty clingy too so if you just start to pull away he will eventually get the idea and back off too
2006-11-30 16:10:15 · answer #10 · answered by Courtney 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋