I am a virgin. As hard as it is, I'm trying to save for marriage. When you guys get a girlfriend, or even interested in a girl, does the urge to beat off just... Go away for you? Is it normal that it does for me? I don't even feel like scoutin porn... This seems weird, and maybe unhealthy since I hear it's healthy for us to masturbate. If I force myself to I can... But I just don't feel like it. Do I just skip it or is it kind of important?
2006-11-30 16:04:35 · 20 answers · asked by notsohated 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 20. And I'm not a virgin because I can't get any... I get offered like... Three times a week lol.. I'm a Christian and I want marriage to be as fulfilling as possible.
2006-11-30 16:09:37 · update #1
LOL.... And no... I have a very intense sexual drive... I was just asking if any other guys lose the drive to look at porn and beat off when they get interested in a girl... That's all.
2006-11-30 16:12:13 · update #2
hehehe you sound like my friend i mean he is going through the exact same thing we talk about it lots he's pretty gosh darn open with me but no your not the only maybe one of a select few but ya y friend is the same...
unless your my friend i'm thinking of... in which case maybe you are teh only one hehe.. just fooling
anyways.... good luck with that...♥
2006-11-30 16:15:26 · answer #1 · answered by arei 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey
it's okey and ithink it's best to keep it till ur wedding
as a girl who is 18 nd isstill a virgin i am wating 4 the wedding thing too
but i don't think u should push ur self caus emayne ur body and mind is not ready 4 it yet
just cause other people do it doesn't mean u should do it tooo
chances are u wouldn't be getting any type of deases.
so me and u will wait 4 the wedding thing to happen .
good luck and don't push ur self.
2006-12-01 00:09:45 · answer #2 · answered by Hally berry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend is waiting for me, and doesn't mind at all. As far as I know, he isn't into porn and porn isn't something he would hide from me. Sure, we get urges to go all the way, but we're waiting for marriage. And that knowledge is extremely fulfilling.
2006-12-01 00:11:59 · answer #3 · answered by Evoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's perfectly normal to beat your meat. save yourself for marriage and keep beating it. there's also a lot of other fun stuff to do other than sex with a girl all while staying a virgin such as milking the prostate, tounge the bung, erotic afixiation, road head, hot wax on the balls, waxing genitalia, dry humping, finger banging, and twister. these are all very good things to do with your partner
2006-12-01 00:11:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is evidence that not "releasing" for a man could increase risk of prostate cancer.
http://www.forbes.com/2003/10/08/cz_af_1008health.html
I don't think you really NEED to masturbate if you don't want though.
As far as with me -- no way. When I meet a girl I am interested in my libido gets much larger. I can't stop thinking about what I want to do with her.
2006-12-01 00:10:40 · answer #5 · answered by bdb4269 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u have been listening to women to much, no the desire to satisfy yourself should never go away, woman just want men to believe this to have control of them. trust me women masturbate more than any man could ever think of, act like a man, get some and grow up
2006-12-01 00:08:07 · answer #6 · answered by keithy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When you can actually have a girl in front of you and it is time for you two to go at it.....the urge will be there! Kudos to you for waiting by the way.
2006-12-01 00:07:06 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't force yourself -- that's unhealthy. It's also unhealthy to stop yourself when you have the urge. Just, basically, go with what you feel and you can't go wrong.
2006-12-01 00:07:03 · answer #8 · answered by Lucan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry. you are simply a female trapped in a male's body. The good news is there are now states where you can get a same sex marriage and it's perfectly find to save yourself until that day.
2006-12-01 00:07:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're lucky that you're not addicted. Keep up the non-masturbating, it's lust of the mind and a sin (if you're a christian), but if you're an atheist, it's just a nasty habit.
2006-12-01 00:07:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋