Ladies - how would you react if you were with your boyfriend or husband, and you caught him staring at another woman? Would you be offended? Would you say something to him? Or would it be OK with you (he can look as long as he doesn't touch)?
2006-11-30 15:59:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly I wouldn't care too much. What can you do, make a guy wear a blindfold?
2006-11-30 16:04:35 · answer #1 · answered by fe2bsho 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm. That's a tough one. I can't say I don't look at guys, but if I were in a relationship, I would think that I would be in that position BECAUSE I couldn't stop looking and wanted to know more.
If my fella was looking, that's one thing, if he's staring, that's something else completely. It says he's not with me enough to love me like he should.
2006-11-30 16:04:34 · answer #2 · answered by iambic_chatterbox 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Assuming that we're staring because we like what we see is often wrong. When we like what we see we're more discrete about the looking because most of us aren't stupid - when we stare it's because we see something that our brain just won't process like, "what the heck was she thinking?" or "didn't her momma teach her how to dress in public?" or "I wonder how much she charges?" or "I didn't know they made bikinis that big!" and the like. It's like looking at a car accident as you go by - you have to look but that doesn't mean you'd like to have a car accident yourself. Sometimes we're not even looking at what it appears we are. It's just that the woman they think we're looking at is in the way of the view to that really cool boat or we're thinking "I wonder where she got that beer, I'd like a beer." Here in Myrtle Beach we don't get the best beach bodies in the world. [they have those out in California and in Southern Spain] Heck, bathing attire they wear in California and Europe is illegal on the beach here. They call this 'the redneck riviera' for a reason and what we're seeing on our beach is just like reality TV but more real. I've never found myself too impressed by the beach bodies in Pawleys Island or Hilton Head - those are some pretty aged beach goers generally speaking. The tramps are in Myrtle Beach and North Myrtle Beach. Don't believe me? Ask him next time you catch it, "baby, would you like me to dress like that?" and see if he isn't completely disgusted by that idea or answers "like what, a boat?" As for checking out hot bodies - ladies do that one too. It's normal human behavior.
2016-05-23 06:56:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be offended at all. I would take a look at her to and make sure she was worth staring at. Hey you can look but don't touch. There's no harm in looking.
2006-11-30 17:44:21 · answer #4 · answered by prettyladynred3 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Look Don't Touch! If he needs a bib because he is drooling then I would be pissed off. Everyone likes to look at someone or something that is pleasant to the eye. Just don't drool or compare us.
2006-11-30 18:27:19 · answer #5 · answered by Sweety 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If it happens occasionally I guess I am OK with it. Not offended but it would bring my self esteem down.
2006-11-30 16:08:52 · answer #6 · answered by ana l 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looking briefly and even mentionally that she is attractive is ok with me. STARING at her would bother me. That would imply a lusting after another woman problem and Jesus even said this is adultery..... so..... No... he'd better not.
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-11-30 16:02:41 · answer #7 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't mind a brief glance. I definitely say something even if I am not mad.
2006-11-30 16:04:45 · answer #8 · answered by tooyoung2bagrannybabe 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't care d/t the fact I am looking at men as well, come on we are all human, we have the gift of sight.
2006-11-30 16:02:53 · answer #9 · answered by 2sexy 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Depends on how he does it and what mood I am in!!!!
2006-11-30 16:03:31 · answer #10 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋