2006-11-30 15:50:53 · 15 answers · asked by karl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
SHE MAY HAVE FEEL THAT IF SHE TOLD YOU ABOUT HER
PAST YOU WOULD HAVE FELT DIFFENT ABOUT HER. BUT
IF YOU HAVE PROBLEM WITH THIS THEN TALK TO HER
ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HER LYING TO YOU. HOPE
FULLY YOU CAN WORK IT OUT.
2006-11-30 15:54:28 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are any number of reasons why she lied to you.
Granted, it's best not to lie about your past, because it will come back and bite you.
The best thing to do is to have a conversation with her and I mean a conversation, not a fight. Simply ask her why she felt she had to mislead you about things and see if she can or will tell you.
If she explains and gives a rational reason why, at that point then, you can make a decision whether you even want to continue with her or not.
But I have to tell you, if she lied one time, you will never be totally confident that she will always be truthful. And you will drive yourself nutso just trying to catch her in a lie. It just isn't worth it, friend.
Move on and find someone you can trust.
2006-12-01 00:09:34 · answer #2 · answered by Gnome 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lie means hiding the truth from somebody tt we dont wish he/she knows. what did she lies to you? about what? if there is nothing serious about that then never mind. u also not an angel, u also lie to somebody else and no one is not a sinner. not a big deal UNLESS the case is very serious like ' i was a murder" or smugler' LOL or other things tt u cant accept
Since you cant believe her anymore y still with her? one for the basic need in relationship is TRUST and BELIEVE, well if u dont have tt anymore then leave her. let her find somebody else tt can forgive her past and trust her
2006-12-01 00:00:08 · answer #3 · answered by simplelife76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
possible reason could vary.... i understand the lying situation and you feel you lost trust that is normal after a lie... but on the other had when i said reason could vary is because it can be a multiple number of things like for example if she told you maybe she was scared you would break up with her... or maybe she would be afraid of breaking up with you having the feeling that you are mad at her... or she is so afraid of the past that she feels she cant be straight forward about it.... but you should sit and talk to her and try to get to the truth... because the truth could men wether or not your relationship lasts or not
2006-12-01 00:07:20 · answer #4 · answered by Joseph H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she lied about her past so that you wouldn't judge her for it. People seem to feel that they have a right to judge someones actions when they do not. I dated a guy who would always ask about my past and I'd be honest with him, he would then blow it way out of proportion and make it worse then it was or seem to think he knew things that he did not. Why did you ask about her past? Her past is her past regardless of what she told you, you have no right to know what she did in her past because it did not involve YOU! If you feel you can not trust her then move on instead of staying in a relationship that has no trust.
2006-11-30 23:54:52 · answer #5 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She lied because she couldn't trust you with it..
Some secrets are just plain painful.
You don't need to do that to yourself, if you can help it.
Why can't people just let the past die.
Someone's past is nobodies business but their own.
2006-11-30 23:59:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
were u a part of her past? what did she lie about..maybe the past is not important its the here and now the future.
2006-11-30 23:55:00 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what she lied about, if it was about money would you be intimidated. If it was sex did you be honest with her completely. When we question someone we have to examine ourselves and try not to be the moral majority judging others. If it has you questioning your trust for her you never trusted her. Please reflect on yourself before you judge her.
2006-11-30 23:56:59 · answer #8 · answered by zizi4me22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let dying dogs lie. and just be that the past is past not your future in my opion?
2006-11-30 23:55:44 · answer #9 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes they are ashamed of who they are. they want to show you a more interesting person of the past. They are trying to make themselves interesting.
2006-12-01 00:04:30 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off it would help if I knew what she lied about! There could be many reasons.
2006-11-30 23:54:55 · answer #11 · answered by homesweethomediana@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋