I have been seeing this guy for almost 3 months now and things started off slowly but good, suddenly he called less often like just once a week. Then 2 weeks ago he said he´d call me so we could go out but he didn´t so I emailed him and told him that I would have liked to get to know him better but that i guess he wasn´t interested, it was a sweet funny mail. The next day he called me and since I didn´t answer he emailed me and gave me a fair excuse and that he wnated me to give him the chance to show me he was interested in going out with me and he invited me to lunch the next day. The date went fine and we spent the day tougether but now it´s been 12 days and he hasn´t called me so I´m confused!!!! His email was really sweet but now he stopped calling me. What should I do I don´t want to call him!
2006-11-30 15:25:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't call him he might have forgotten to call you
2006-11-30 15:28:59 · answer #1 · answered by csm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know your own answer. Of course he is not interested in a matter you may be in. Be real with yourself.....In life we rarely have the opportunity to spend any time with someone that allows us to have a good feeling within. Work on the fact you are friends you can test that by emailing him about another lunch but you want to go dutch. If at any point during your dialog he hints to a relationship....be wise.......make statements like I gave that a shot and realized that you do not want a relationship I think friendship is more important at this time. You need to let go....
chin up life is too short to waste time for the never call...
2006-11-30 23:35:51 · answer #2 · answered by wonderiswithin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't put too much time/energy into this guy. It sounds like he may not want a commitment at this time, but perhaps a companion.
I would play it cool, call him up in a couple of days to "just see how he is doing and what's up." Leave a message if he doesn't answer, but do not keep calling him. If he is interested, he will call you back, but if not, as much as you may like this guy, don't sweat it. There will be someone else, promise.
2006-11-30 23:30:54 · answer #3 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is the frustrating part of dating i don't like and i really don't like that after 3 months you are getting treated so inconsistently . dear just ask him what is up tell him you would like him to call you more consistory . if he is interested he will sounds like maybe he wants to take it slow but if he wanted to get to know you better he would call more often right ?girl i think you need to date more guys then choose from the one you wont have to question weather to call or not because it will be mutual and you wont have to question and research your desire to call you just can . lots of love dear
2006-11-30 23:35:21 · answer #4 · answered by dancfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you doing? If i didn't call someone for 12 days or whatever then I wouldn't care about them. Time for you to get over him and move on. If you keep giving him more chances he will just keep breaking your heart.
2006-11-30 23:31:50 · answer #5 · answered by D-Will 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, ur right about your decision.. don't ever make the first move.. it'll just show that u are very interested with him.. BUT if you know that he's not that type of guy that would think negative, or react violently,,then call him.. why not?.. he might just be busy with some stuff.. or work.. hasn't he?..
2006-11-30 23:33:46 · answer #6 · answered by r.p. rowling 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, i guess you better have to let go of that person. he ain't for you. the time that you went on dating, he actually wanted to know you better but i guess there's something that he didn't like during your date. it may look fine on you but sometimes there are guys that are sooo choosy/picky.. you will never know what they like and what they won't like.
i guess you better have to look for someone else that will truly cares and love you dearly..
take a care and good luck!
fossilloverme
2006-11-30 23:31:41 · answer #7 · answered by fossilloverme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might be hard but if i were u i would move on. dont waste ur life waiting around for someone who might not show up . if he calls u great, if not its his loss there are plenty more fish in the sea
2006-11-30 23:35:56 · answer #8 · answered by suzi Q 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just remember not to freak out. take your time. if you haven't tried to contact him yet then try once. only once. then just wait. time is not of the essence.
2006-11-30 23:34:10 · answer #9 · answered by jmd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're a booty call now
play him off a bit first then you'll know for sure
2006-11-30 23:27:50 · answer #10 · answered by groovergabe 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋