seriously because im joining the navy. going to boot in ten days. i trust my girl, but i know a lot can happen over long periods of separation.
2006-11-30 15:15:57 · 18 answers · asked by someguyacrosstown 6 in Politics & Government ➔ Military
every broad i went out with while i was in the military cheated on me while i was gone...and I've seen it done to almost everyone else as well...so good luck, don't expect too much while yer in camp
2006-11-30 15:19:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 5⤋
I am in the Navy myself and my boyfriend is in the Marine Corps. He is currently deployed to Iraq and has been for the last 2 months and 19 days. He gets back in the spring of 2007. We will spend 7 months together and then I will be the one who deploys. If your going into the military you have to get used to separation and long distance love. I have never cheated on my man nor has it even crossed my mind!! If she loves you she WILL NOT cheat on you!
I have dated other military men who were due to go on deployment and when asked if I would wait for them to return I said no because I was not ready for that commitment (and it is a big one), but I am now dating the man I am going to spend the rest of my life with and a few thousand miles could never change that!!
Sit her down and talk to her. Make sure she is willing to wait, tell her that it will be the first of many separations that the two of you will have to endure. If you can make it through boot camp and a couple of deployments together then you two will be able to make it through anything!!
2006-12-03 03:02:10 · answer #2 · answered by hmparks_usn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's hard waiting, but it's so stereotypical in the military of guys/wives cheating... If a person is going to cheat, it doesn't matter if they are a military wife or a Marine, or soldier, or whatever... If you trust her, why are you asking this question... if you have doubts, break it off now, because it's enough heartache having to wait, let alone knowing you aren't trusted-- and for you, do you really want to have to worry if you're going to get a "dear john letter"? Much luck.. hope you two work it out.
2006-12-01 00:11:25 · answer #3 · answered by Nicole 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it really depends on how long your gone, and where you will be at.... most girls cheat for those reasons... i found, from personal experience, its better to break the relationship off.... if u do trust each other and want to be together, keep in touch during boot camp and start things back up when you come back... then there is no question. Because if she cheats and you find out, it will make things worse for you while your in basic...
And not all girls cheat on their boyfriends/husbands. Keep that in mind, or you will costantly worry about it.
2006-11-30 23:55:14 · answer #4 · answered by colie t 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you trust her? You know she can ask the same question of you! Right? If she is gonna cheat you, You cannot do a thing about it! Nor can she do a thing about you cheating, while abroad, and believe me ..... you will have many a chance, If you succumb to the pressures. It is the same pressures she will have! You have to both make a commitment to be true to one another. Love is a trust relationship.OK.
Just keep in contact with one another.
2006-11-30 23:25:34 · answer #5 · answered by atcranes 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Cheating today can have vast repercussions --- like diseases that stay with you for life. People don't take commitments seriously any longer and some find out the hard way. If she's worth it, trust her. If you have doubts, dump her now.
2006-12-01 00:35:01 · answer #6 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck and i hope everything will be ok for you in basic training. Its best to end it now if guys dont have trust cuz if something happens (as u may think ) during basic it will ruin u during that time. So sit down and talk things out.
Good luck
proud military wife
2006-12-01 08:28:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, if they cheat on you then there is no use of them.
I'm in the navy, and so far I date nothing but military, I can't date a civilain for some reason.
Just because a few cheat don't mean all cheat.
Point is, don't worry if she's going to cheat or not, if you find that she does then guess what let her butt go, she obviously isn't worth your love and devotion if she is going to throw it away like that.
But trust me you will be tempted as well.
2006-11-30 23:30:30 · answer #8 · answered by marajade_04 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
i cheated on most of my boyfriends but i truly love the man i am with now...i see my future with him so i would not jeopardize what we have for some temporary affection. i know you being away from her for a long time, she'll probably get lonely, just let her know how much she means to you and that one day, you'll never be apart. if she loves you enough, she'll be patient
2006-11-30 23:20:00 · answer #9 · answered by girlwiththegoodies 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well I cheated on my ex husband while he was in the Army but only because I knew that it was over and he treated me like crap my Fiance now is in the Air Force and I have never and will never cheat on him.
2006-11-30 23:23:51 · answer #10 · answered by SunShineBabe 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I aint married so none but I wouldn't worry about it cuz if she loves you she wont cheat on but if she does that relationship was going no where in the first place.
2006-11-30 23:19:10 · answer #11 · answered by bearcatz_07 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋