There is this guy, that I really really like. Unlike any other guy that I have ever liked he is very simple. But he still chills with the cool people and stuff but he is still a nice guy. I have been heart broken many times, I am afraid to get hurt again.because I have opened my self so much with other guys that I have liked and I have left heart broken. I dont want this to hapen with him. I also dont know how to open up to him and bring up the subject that I am interested in something more than a friendship. So how do I tell him without being blunt about it? How do I know he likes me without him telling me?
2006-11-30 15:15:17 · 11 answers · asked by Lewis l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, try being friends with him. my sister's friend had this problem too and she became friends with the guys first to put up something like a test i think. if he pass, just tell him u like him.
2006-11-30 15:19:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,
the best way i could put it is: every heart break is just the begging of a new love story. if he seems different then all the other guys then chances are that he is! dont be afraid of what hasnt happened yet. your not really with him yet and your already thinking that he is going to hurt you. the advice i give you is to talk to him about it, bring up who he likes and things like that then just hint to him that you are interested. tell him when he looks cute lol, hang out with him, find out what he's interested in and try it out. be confident in yourself
2006-11-30 23:21:34 · answer #2 · answered by ballerbabe920 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try reading his body language. If he's interested, his pupils will dilate slightly when he looks at you. Also, when you are talking, if he leans his upper body toward you, or his toes are pointed toward you, he is very intent on you, usually a sign that he likes you. Also, if he teases you or makes excuses to touch you (any kind of touch, even getting something out of your hair or tickling you), he probably likes you. As far as letting him know you like him, just be interested when he talks, and smile at him a lot. Act like he's the only guy in the room.
2006-11-30 23:21:07 · answer #3 · answered by Alicia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know some times honesty is your best policy. you might get hurt for just a little while but then you will be good to go again or you might find out that he has been thinking the very same thing you have. so to find out try having some one on one time with him when you two can just talk.
2006-11-30 23:24:09 · answer #4 · answered by baywood 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that you don't want to get hurt. However, think about it. You will be more hurt if you continue to have these feelings and never do anything about it and then he hooks up with someone else. Also, you will never know how he feels unless you talk to him. After all, he may be having the same feelings and thoughts about you. Life is too short to wait.
2006-11-30 23:19:34 · answer #5 · answered by B R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just being out there & dating other guys lets him know you are cool too. If you are in a situation where you are hanging out with him and talking to him normally, mention how you like his taste in something and ask him if he could go with you to shop for something for as friend. Getting him one on one makes it easier for you both to get to know each other.
2006-11-30 23:21:30 · answer #6 · answered by Psychic Sk8r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U know from your heart, mind over matter.
Just be honest and give him a christmas card, it is a start.
And kiss him on the cheek
2006-11-30 23:18:46 · answer #7 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be his friend and be sure to be in the places whre he is....
This way, you can be around him and be friends and be sure you really like him and then you can see if he acts like he likes you in that way.... When you bond as friends, the next step will come more naturally......Best of Luck in Love
2006-11-30 23:20:25 · answer #8 · answered by superficialblonde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends first is Good way to start do not repeat the pattern in your life and you should get different results
2006-11-30 23:23:10 · answer #9 · answered by tim k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he loves you you'll know because he'll call you alot just to say hi or see how your doing......if he tells you sweet things with out wanting anything back......if he talks to you and shares his feelings with you.....the only thing you can do is talk to him about it and if he gets mad then maybe you guys weren't ment to be......you guys need to talk to eachother be cause if you guys can't talk then you got nothing.....i hope i helped.....good luck
2006-12-01 16:50:27 · answer #10 · answered by ladee giggles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋