When are you supposed to have a very first sex when you meet a guy. I absolutley don't want to have it on the first date or even on the first week of knowing each other because I don't want a guy to think that I'm his F*** Body or I'm just a typical girl.
On the other hand, how to prevent the sex to happen at the early stages of relationship? OR How to look more valuable in a guy's eyes?????
2006-11-30 15:13:06 · 20 answers · asked by ELK 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess you will just have to go with what feels right! Sometimes people that have sex the first night end up staying together a long time or they don't it all depends if the guy is really into you! Although I wouldn't do it on the first night no matter how bad I was into the guy. I waited 3 months with my current boyfriend and I was worried because we were in H.S. and I thought that was too soon but we are still together it's been 10 years. My advice is just take your time and make sure hes really into you not just in it for sex.
2006-11-30 15:17:29 · answer #1 · answered by calieyecandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is valuable, and you trust him to know that you are valuable and how valuable, then what you do is appreciate each other and study each other. Not ever boring, don't rush. Save something for each other too, even if you have sex with somebody else out of horniness. If ya value each other totally you just can sort of sense the value and strength and integrity that is there. The value flows both ways, I wouldn't doubt that unless I had a reason to.
2006-11-30 23:20:00 · answer #2 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have it on the first date. You will know when is the time because you will feel that it is right. Don't let him pressure you into it if you don't want to. If you get to know the guy, then your relationship has a good chance of being a good one. If your relationship is based on sex then you run the risk of have problems in the relationship if the amount or quality of sex decreases.
2006-11-30 23:16:06 · answer #3 · answered by B R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, wait as long as you can. If you don't want to be just a typical girl or "good time only" type, you should play it that you are "for real". And how can you do it? Wait and don't open him and yourself a chance. Don't be with him alone in private place. It's difficult but you have to as they tend to leave you after the first time in bed together.
However, try not to kiss before the 3rd date.
Good Luck.
2006-11-30 23:22:13 · answer #4 · answered by Sunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you have a 2 PM marriage ceremony, by the time the reception is over and you make it to the motel room, it should be around 10 PM. So, I'd say about 8 hours after you get married.
2006-11-30 23:16:20 · answer #5 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just relax, it'll happen when it should happen. Focus your energy on testing the guy to see if he's worth it, or someone you'd actually want to have sex with. Give it time and it'll happen when you both are ready. If he TRIES to get with you, then you know he's not right. Date someone else. You can't fall in love everyday...
2006-11-30 23:16:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not until you're ready and just tell him. Demand respect on this issue, both from him and yourself. You are the captain of this particular love boat, and you give the orders. If he can't respect that, then it's time for him to dock in another port. Got it, matey?
2006-11-30 23:17:07 · answer #7 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have sex until your ready and you know you will be ready.. I didnt have sex for 4 months lol.. And then everyday afterwards was all sex and I still think i should have saved it until marrage.
2006-11-30 23:16:16 · answer #8 · answered by GodWillSaveMe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You talk about this like its just something to do... but it should be more about how you feel about a guy. Don't just give it up to keep a guy interested. Trust me you'll appreciate this later on.
2006-11-30 23:15:41 · answer #9 · answered by jamesnjenifer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just have sex when your ready . if its soon then its soon . if you dont want to till later then dont.. no one is making you **** the guy, lol. as for making yourself valuable playing hard to get works like a charm. just dont play too hard to get.
2006-11-30 23:17:21 · answer #10 · answered by raspberrysmom 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋