I meet a guy who seems really nice and decent, you chat for a while and it comes to the subject of kids say i have some.... (which u would think would send them running) but no its like its even more of a turn on. They charm u do what they can then when they finally get in ur pants they run!! What the deal is it because I have kids they think ur an easy r**t??
2006-11-30 15:07:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Really guys dont like to go through baby daddy drama and if they dont have kids they dont want to have somebody else's kids and get serious with a girl cuz then they become responsible. Its better to date a guy who has kids and can relate to you. and another thing dont let them get in your jeans to fast cuz then that is all they would stick around for !!!! or leave once they get it
2006-11-30 15:14:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you having kids is a turn on...um...yeah run like the hills...pedophile alert....
Some guys can handle that...I love kids but would never date a mom cos I hate ex's...As they said in Jerry McGuire about shoplifting the pooty, not a cool thing..but you need to focus on your kids first obviously...
But, and I am not saying this is what I think, a lot of guys know that single moms are a little more desperate than a woman with no kids, and they are piggish enough to take advantage of that...so what you do is keep you clothes on for a good long time and see if Romeo is for real or for sex only...
2006-11-30 23:11:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont think so. Seems in the situation you described that it's just guys being guys, honestly. And it also depends on the age of the guy. I would think that most guys in their mid 20s are not thinking about serious relationships, marriage, the good stuff, and having kids makes that implication. Finding a good dude isn't hard, but isn't easy; you just have to set your boundaries before another relationship comes along.
2006-11-30 23:25:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay here's the rub. You are in your 20's, have two children, and no husband (or boyfriend). So it is a given fact that you are having sex. Now if your two children have different fathers, that means you have had sex with more than one man (specially if your kids are close in age). Most men are going to look at that as being Easy (rather it's true or not).
So they are going to play the odds, you had sex with at least two men. Chances are better that you would sleep with them, and that's all they want. The sex without the relationship.
P.S; Don't get mad at me for saying this, I'm just stating what a lot of men may think.
2006-11-30 23:20:10 · answer #4 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No but they figure you probably could use some good sex. You have to remember that children are baggage ( CUTE BAGGAGE) but still not many men want to take on a already made family. But there are some good men out there that will be willing to take on the challenge.
2006-11-30 23:12:57 · answer #5 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls with kids put out. Its 100%. That's all guys see. Eventually you will find a guy that really IS nice and decent.
2006-11-30 23:12:57 · answer #6 · answered by texmusic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats wrong having kids when you are 20, its nothing wrong, be happy, this type of guys cant be trusted in long run, because they only want sex not a life partner.
2006-11-30 23:11:34 · answer #7 · answered by THILLAI a 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't want to play daddy to another mans kids. This is something you'll have to deal with.
2006-11-30 23:18:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no we do think becuase you have kids you are easy
the guy would do and act the same way
maybe things need to move slower or different kinds of men
2006-11-30 23:15:10 · answer #9 · answered by tim k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not to be too harsh, but...they ARE getting in your pants. maybe you'd have better luck finding a keeper if you kept 'em out for a bit. weed out the lowlifes and runners.
2006-12-01 00:36:35 · answer #10 · answered by darlingdybbuk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋