A friend of mine told me that one the most important things in dating is for you to make the other person need you, like to make the other feel the need to talk to you or see you. Now my question is how do you do this? Do you call the guy a lot or what? I don´t get it how do you create that need in the other?
2006-11-30 15:06:06 · 10 answers · asked by jc pink 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She has no idea what she is talking about. The most important thing is that you both like each other, have things in common, etc. Creating a need like that is manipulative, and the other person will eventually see that. Do not take relationship advice from her,
2006-11-30 15:09:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is wrong. You should be dating guys who WANT to talk to you and see you. You can't create this except by being the best person you can be. Be friendly, but don't call the guy "a lot" (just when you genuinely have something to say, and when the timing is appropriate), and don't try to make him "need" you. Don't get too hung up on any one guy. If he doesn't want you, then he's not the one for you. Plenty of other guys will be thrilled to date you.
2006-11-30 15:14:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,
well i know she's your friend and all but im not too sure about her advice. (just saying) i mean the person your with shouldn feel like they need you, they should feel like they enjoy being with you. So i guess you would call him once in awhile, but let him call you too. oh, dont pick up on the first ring either. if you see him in the halls or wherever let him come up to you and maybe once in awhile approach him. thats all i can think of right now.
2006-11-30 15:11:31 · answer #3 · answered by ballerbabe920 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO nONONO!!!! don't call him a lot! take a day or two off let him call you. as for the need want etc you'd need to find out what he need if he's touchy feely then be willing to cuddle but be careful not to crowd or guilt trip if he doesn't call just call him up see what's happening be chill be aloof be zen
2006-11-30 15:11:40 · answer #4 · answered by groovergabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it truly relies upon on what state it occurred in. some states the age of consent is as low as 14 years previous. many times those states might want to have something specifying an exception to rape if the older human being is interior of three or 4 years. truly you may want to search for your community and state regulations to carry close what the case is on your particular project.
2016-10-08 01:07:24 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That type of thing just happen, you have to do nothing... of course don't call him a lot... just be yourself, if he likes you he will call you or look for you...act normally...
If you have a real interest about him, let you to naturally feel attracted about his life, his things... but that has to be authentic, not fake or you will screw everything.
2006-11-30 15:17:05 · answer #6 · answered by Osk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what u do is when the other person calls u and invites u on dates u say ur busy, that makes him want u more and happier when he does gets to see you...
2006-11-30 15:09:47 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Right 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you should try to create that in someone i think if the other person isn't interest in the first you should move on!
2006-11-30 15:10:55 · answer #8 · answered by ms. clean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play hard to get, do something that'll make him never want to leave your sight...(wink wink)
2006-11-30 15:08:33 · answer #9 · answered by Toyre_826 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you don't call them at all. they have to call you. don't always seem available either. its called 'playing hard to get'
2006-11-30 15:08:58 · answer #10 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋