I met a guy on myspace months ago. It turns out that we went to the same elementary school and we were going to the same college until he had to drop out for a month. He even worked at a place nearby for a week or two and I went and I saw him in person from afar. I was too shy/nervous to approach him. In the beginning we did these myspace surveys about what if I was his g/f and what if he was my b/f and how we would act and I think he likes me. The only problem is that he is a huge believer of fate but the elementary school, college part, my chance at seeing him at work, and how much alike we are makes me think that is fate, in a strange way. I'd like to invite him to do something but it seems too bold. I'm shy but he's shy too so I don't know what to do or how to ask. We used to have really long message conversations but lately he just writes a paragraph or two, if that much. How can I ask him out in a casual way, never asked a guy out before? Or should I wait and see what happens?
2006-11-30 15:05:07 · 7 answers · asked by Sam L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just ask him out, maybe he started writing paragraphs b/c he doesn't want to scare you off. Just let him know how you feel and let him run with it. Its never too bold for a girl to ask a guy, its only annoying if she is acting slutty when she does it. Just mention some movies you wanna see and how you would like to see them with him and let him make some moves, don't go farther than grabbing his hand, let him make the other moves.
2006-11-30 15:10:00 · answer #1 · answered by ken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out. Don't Hold back. You will hate yourself for that. Just stop by and be like hey! didn't know you work here or hey! i just came by and see how you were doing, want to grab a cup of coffee??? ya know? be casual. Stop being shy, you'll miss out all the great things in life.
2006-11-30 15:08:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fear is an amazing thing. In the dark, our imagination runs wild and can pretty much give us a heart attack until we realize that it was just a sweater in the corner and not the boogy man.
Relationship fear pretty much works the same way. Fear to call, fear to talk, fear to continue fearing. I fear for you (pun intended) that your dance of fear may be coming to an end unless one of you changes the beat. (based on his increasingly limited responses) Since you wrote this, I vote that that person who changes the beat be you.
Find a common activity that you would both enjoy and ask him (yes simply ask him) if he would be interested in going with you. Keep it public, with little opportunity for intimacy since initially thats not what its all about. (even if that was your goal, you have to take baby steps)
Most don't act because they are too afraid of rejection. The problem is, by not acting, you are rejecting yourself. My advise to you is to get out of your way.
2006-11-30 15:17:01 · answer #3 · answered by websco137 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make a picnic lunch and invite him to join you at a public place. Be careful until you get to know him. He might not be what you think. After the picnic wait for him to make the next move. But again be careful.
2006-11-30 15:09:19 · answer #4 · answered by hotmama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-29 17:53:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is an idea, since you like my space send him a picture of a really yummy dinner then say something like if you want to go out to dinner why dont you send me a picture of the kind of dessert you want ? or something on that line...flirty coy tactful and sexy all in one.
2006-11-30 15:10:12 · answer #6 · answered by purrfectica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be bold and ask him out, you don't know what could happen! Good luck.
2006-11-30 15:07:15 · answer #7 · answered by amber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋