I don't attract guys much. Occasionally I'll turn a head or one of my friends will let me know someone is checking me out but that's as far as it goes. I'm not overweight, I don't think I'm ugly. Is there something wrong with me? I have never even been asked out on a date. All of my friends at one point or another have at least been asked out. Is there something about me that I should change? I dress and act like a normal girl, I can be slightly shy with guys at first but once I get to know them I'm not anymore. Can someone please help me with this? I don't know what's wrong! I'm into the same things most girls are into. I shop, I play sports. Is there something that I'm not doing?
2006-11-30 15:00:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm friendly, funny (hopefully), I make friends easily and have lots of friends. I enjoy reading, basketball, shopping, my friends are very important to me. I think that covers normal. Is this enough details for you? If you want to know anything else just ask.
2006-11-30 15:11:56 · update #1
You seem to be a cool girl!
You are not doing anything wrong. You are still young, and you will get asked out dont you worry. The only thing i would advise is that you stop being so shy around guys and show your confidence a little bit more. Try coming up to guys just to say 'Hi'. Thats an awesome way to start.
Good luck!
Peace
2006-11-30 15:04:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know lots of truely GORGEOUS girls who have never had a boyfriend and are the same as you. I think that a lot of the time, guys just look for the easiest pick, which may not be you. Also, if u dont seem interested in guys, it can lead them to think of you as only a friend. It takes awhile to find a good guy- and if you really are impatient, try showing ur intrest in dating. Talk about it more, have your friends casually mention you like him to him, or just ask whoever u like out yourself. Im sure your perfectly fine looking.
2006-11-30 23:06:26 · answer #2 · answered by Lillypad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes just plain girls get looked over. You are not ugly enough to make fun of and not pretty enough to be noticed. Sorry but I know where you are coming from, I am in the same boat.
2006-11-30 23:03:48 · answer #3 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did not give much of a description of ur self. What's normal? Maybe you are fishing in the wrong pond, check different venues to look for guys. Are you approachable? What's your personality like? Basiclly I need more information!!!!!!
2006-11-30 23:06:16 · answer #4 · answered by Dre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, i just asked almost the same question, you should read it in my profile. Well, mine os less romantic but similar idea. I don't think there's anything wrong with you, unless there is something wrong with the both of us. I can only tell you that i hope you find an answer.
2006-11-30 23:05:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,
well confidence is the answer to all your questions! i promise if you feel good then you'll look great, but if you have a low self-esteem or your too shy a guy may not like that. and you shouldn have to change yourself. if you like a guy then dont wait for him to approach you, try something new and go up to him.
2006-11-30 23:06:53 · answer #6 · answered by ballerbabe920 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are too protective of themselves. No one is willing to take a risk these days.
So go out there in a short skirt and no panties. You'll get a date, I guarantee it.
2006-11-30 23:03:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No just be yourself and you will get a guy. Dont worry about it.
Good Luck
Hope I helped u
2006-11-30 23:03:38 · answer #8 · answered by ♡I Love Christmas!♡ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself so when a guy finally asks u out then he'll be asking u out not u trying to be someone that your not
2006-11-30 23:07:06 · answer #9 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just have confidence in yourself it attracts guys like bees to flowers..... trust me! Good luck.
2006-11-30 23:04:27 · answer #10 · answered by a.rose19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋