so i aksed for advice days ago about the girl who dumped me and how it hurts seeing her again... i was told to by many to tell her how i feel, so finally i did..i wrote her a pretty long letter via email. what i got in reply was a very brief response. she said she was busy right now, understands what im saying and agrees--and good ending--take care.
that's all she said. the next day we ran into each other. she was laughing. she said my letter was funny. i know i wrote a couple of funny lines but it seems like she didnt even recognize the depth of it. i know i should move on...can you just help pull myslef together, and share your thought about the situation. i dont have anyone to share my probs with bcoz im gay in the closet...i just need an ear i guess..my mind is so clouded right now.
2006-11-30 14:49:26 · 4 answers · asked by vincent m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im a lesbian--just to make it clear..
2006-11-30 14:54:04 · update #1
I admit to being a little confused. If you're gay, then why are you so hung up about the girl? Is it possible you're bisexual and not gay?
Anyway...it seems like this was her loss. You poured your heart out in this letter, and not only did she coldly tell you that she was too busy for you, but the next day she laughed in your face. Sounds pretty icy to me, and frankly, male or female, you can do better.
I feel really bad that you're hurting, and it may hurt for some time yet, but it is in your best interest, in my opinion, to look elsewhere, or to just take some time for yourself to figure out what you truly want.
2006-11-30 14:53:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going to give you the advise that worked for me....
If you see her alot, act like you are fine. Call some friends and go out. I am not sure your age but find age appropriate activities and have fun. When she notices you are going on with your life (or it at least looks like you are) then she may get a little jealous and want the attention back..
Just remember, there is a reason why things didn't work out the 1st time. Good luck
2006-11-30 22:53:57 · answer #2 · answered by superficialblonde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in dat case jz get over it..give her space since she said she is bzy.. bt if u dun want to do dat..jz tell her wat u were thinking straight to her face..bt be sure to pick a gd environment..who knows if u end up fighting
2006-11-30 22:55:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're gay, why are you chasing girls?
2006-11-30 22:52:08 · answer #4 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋