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This isn't a question but I had to adress this after seeing so many lies posted here by American women. Please do not trust theses jealous American women that make up lies
over the internet to scare you away. I'm particularly referring to a
lot of the women here on yahoo answers who call foreign women gold
diggers, sluts, or we are only in a relationship to get a green cards,
ect, ect, ect. Some foreign women maybe like that but no more then
American women, its really sad that some women have resorted to
smearing and lies to make themselves look or feel better in comparison.

2006-11-30 14:47:59 · 10 answers · asked by Marie 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

The other thing I see a lot of is American women saying that the men
who date foreign women can't get or handle American women, or that we
are submissive and do what ever a man tells us. Again generalizations
and obviously not the truth, I see more and more American men turning
to non American women and these men surely aren't losers by anyone’s
standards as you would like to believe. Perhaps the fact that some like
and yes even prefer the qualities of foreign women seems hard to
believe for some American women but it is indeed true.

2006-11-30 14:49:16 · update #1

As for the claim that we are submissive well I will have to attribute
that to the false perception of many American women. I see many American women sleeping around with several partners, scolding men for
simple acts of chivalry, focusing more time on their work then on
relationships with friends, family, and their partner all the while
they claim to be liberal, independent, and progressive. While at the
same time births out of wed lock are at an all time high, STDS/AID's
are on the rise as well, Divorce rates are at about 50 percent, and the
traditional family structure is crumbling giving way to an ever
increasing number of depressed and disturbed children.

2006-11-30 14:50:03 · update #2

10 answers

One thing you need to do if you criticize American women is to learn the language. You seem to think you understand the culture so why not the language.


Fact: There is a cultural difference between American women and foreigners. Foreigners don't know the laws the mores and folkways and social expectations.
Source: Life expereince I work with many foreigners and have many foreign friends who go out of their way to please a man and will say things like, "HE will get mad if I..." (this also happens with fat women so the desperation is the same)

Fact: In third world countries, colonialism established "male dominance" and many women are looked upon as "less than"
Source: History. Japanese foot binding, Killing baby girls in China to please men/ a patriarchal society (the latter is still happening)
TV news the mass rapes of virgins in Africa because men believe "sex" with a virgin will cure them of AIDS

Fact: In war torn countries in the 60's it was Vietnam in the 80's it was Grenada; women will literally prostitute themselves to American men in order to get out and/or get $.
These countries include, Serbia, Romania and the Soviet republics among others

The practice of men (or as you say, "men who aren't loosers" ) trying to meet foreingers through the internet or whatever are in actuality, geeks without social skills who repulse American women.

Fact: With American women asserting their financial independence it is no longer necessary to marry to ensure one's financial future. Marriage and birth rates are falling and divorce rates as you mentioned are high. Men feel insecure about what "being a man" is since much of their ego connected to their wallets; they want someone who will make them feel "special" simply for having a penis. They want someone naive about American culture who will go out of their way to please a man and will say things like, "HE will get mad if I..."

In short everyone wants someone to dominate and for the American man it is the foreign woman.
This in and of itself does make me better in America. I would never date a foreign man (again).

I notice not many attractive women actively seek foreign
men if foreigners were so great women would be seeking foreign men at the same rate American men seek out foreign women.

I find it interesting that your opening statement addresses only white men. As if white men were the only men living in America, or maybe you've been brainwashed to believe that white men are "superior", now there is a colonialistic self hating mindset if I ever heard one. and now I am off of my soapbox.

.Love and kisses,

Picara
All American

2006-11-30 15:27:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

I totally agree. Let us not besmirch each other here. I am Asian and I can't speak for every Asian woman and neither can American women generalize about themselves and foreign women as well. Not all Asian women are the submissive types (I know I'm not) but most Asian women are honest, truthful and loyal to their guys. We were brought up that way.

2006-11-30 14:53:22 · answer #2 · answered by Sherbet 3 · 2 1

Honey I agree that no one has the right to talk about others but I haven't seen this kind of thing on here .
By the way the way you acted here is no better than what you have described .

2006-11-30 14:54:57 · answer #3 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 1 1

There are a lot of dating and marriage scams out there , I've been approached three times in just the last month ..

2006-11-30 14:54:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

Are you French? I really dig a French accent.

2006-11-30 14:51:17 · answer #5 · answered by texmusic 2 · 0 1

Huh? I haven't seen anything like that.

2006-11-30 14:50:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

Don't paint us all with the same brush, okay? I'm American, I'm a woman, and I'm just not that insecure.

2006-11-30 14:50:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2 2

If you have strong character, you wouldn't worry about what others are saying aobut you.

2006-11-30 14:50:47 · answer #8 · answered by Phrosty 4 · 1 1

What?

When did you learn to write?

Shouldn't you be in the kitchen?

2006-11-30 14:49:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

ditto that.

2006-11-30 14:50:36 · answer #10 · answered by Livia 2 · 1 1

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