I have been dating her since last friday. She is the greatest thing in the world to me and I have no regrets about going out with her at all. The only problem is that I think she can do ten times better than me. Its not that I treat her bad or anything, i treat her great. I am amazed that she even said yes but i feel really bad. I feel like you do when you sell something to someone for more than its worth....you know? or maybe you buy something from someone for really cheap and its actually worth a whole lot more. Thats how i feel, like i ripped her off....and she got the Sh***y end of the deal. I just want what would make her happiest and i think she could be a whole lot more happier with someone better.
2006-11-30 14:40:29 · 12 answers · asked by Supafly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Several people have told her that she can do better then me. It doesnt bother me though because i agree with them.
2006-11-30 14:42:10 · update #1
If you can make her smiling at the end of the day, you've won as well. Don't think of it that way.
Think of it this way, even though she's "too good for you" she picked YOU out of supposedly all these other people. So if SHE picked you.. someone who is worth all of these things you're saying she's worth.. then hey, you mustn't be bad at all either. Get what I'm saying? I hope so! Enjoy your life man! Carpe Diem.
Live life, don't fret about it.
2006-11-30 14:46:00 · answer #1 · answered by Chant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Imagine a couple sitting and not talking much with each other...... It will be so boring and their relation will not stay for long, you are lucky to have a girl who is very good at it, such kind of people are very successful in their love life because they talk abt the problem and get the solution in mutual understanding. it is ten time better then compromising....Don't you think so??? yes one thing you need to do is improve your talking skills or the right word is stamina. there are so many topics you can talk and make her feel comfortable. All the best Whats the big deal if you change a lil for your gal...
2016-05-23 06:46:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's common to not feel worthy of the person you're with....
but..
If you have low self-esteem, it's going to show. And if you let it, it will affect your relationship and how you interract with this woman. I know you're better than that, so stop it. You must be something pretty darn special if this wonderful woman wants to be with YOU. If you were the piece of crap you're telling us you are, she wouldn't give you the time of day. Walk down the street with your head high and say "she chooses to be with ME." and be proud of that.
and treat her well.
2006-11-30 14:45:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if that's the way you feel but if she's with you because she wants to be then just be good to her. If you like dating her and she likes dating you then that's what counts right, so feeling like you do just do what you can to live up to being the guy she deserves.
2006-11-30 14:44:39 · answer #4 · answered by jamesnjenifer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear...the fact that U admire her so much it makes U the best guy ever. I wish a guy will place me in the pedestal U have her. If she though U didn't worth her time she wouldn't be dating you..trust me on this one. You keep dating this girl...it will be fine.
2006-11-30 14:44:18 · answer #5 · answered by Mesa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first thing to do is not to think like that.....cause if you feel like that then other with think that.....and if she even thought that she wouldn't have said yes.....and she wouldn't be with you now......either way you just need to keep doing what your doing......keep being sweet, nice, caring and all that good stuff cause once you stop doin that then that's when she'll start thinking she can do better then you......i hope i helped.....good luck
2006-11-30 14:54:22 · answer #6 · answered by ladee giggles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that is wrong of a girl to think that it dont matter about presents of anything from the sounds of it she choose a good guy :)
2006-11-30 14:43:52 · answer #7 · answered by Tiffany 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be she is just tired when she said yes, just like one of my friend, she is not really drunk but she's tired and couldn't think, and she said yes now she's really regret.......since you want her to be happy so much, you gotta talk to her and clear things out, may be she likes you, may be she doesn't, the relationship is not gonna go any where if she doesn't
2006-11-30 14:46:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the thing is dont think that if shes w/ you its because she likes you for you and you should boost up your self-asteem! thats all thats really needed
2006-11-30 14:45:06 · answer #9 · answered by shygirl1124 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why shud other ppl tell ur girlfriend wat to do. She loves you for you! And y r u so down on yourself, y judge and compare yourself to others........ ppl are different, we aren't supposed to be all the same. Wat a boring world we wud live in if it was so. Cheer up. and hang in there. :)
2006-11-30 14:50:40 · answer #10 · answered by Imogen F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋