I Want A Girls Opnion On This??

Question

I Work At KFC And I Like A Girl That Works At Dairy Queen Next Door And She Doesnt Know That I Like Her Everyone At DQ And My Coworkers At KFC. Think I Like Another Girl But I See Her Everyday And Im Scared To Tell Her Because She Is The Store Manger. She Is 20 and Im 21. I Was Talking To Her Today And Just Kinda Flirting Like I Ussually Do And She Said She Was Looking For A Manger And I Said Why Doesnt She Hire Me To Do It And She Said If She Did I Couldnt Date Any Of Her Employees. She Asked If I Was Intrested In Her And I Told Her No Because And I Could Think Of A Reason So I Told Her Because I Had A GF But I Dont Have A GF So Her Birthday Is In A Week And I Wanna Do Something Special So I Though Of Leaving Her Notes At Work Like A Secret Admirer And Then Have Her Meet Me For Dinner On Her Birthday. The Things I Wanna Know Are.: Do You Ladies Think A Secret Admirer Thing Like That Is Romantic? The Second Question Is:Once She Knows I Like Her How Do I Tell I Dont Have A Gf?

So Everyone Know I Type In Captials At The End Of Every Word Because Thats The Way I Learned To Type And It Didnt Take Long To Type Acccually

Answer 1

Okay...You screwed up and now you need to fix it.1st the idea is good and romantic but think about it...You just told this girl you have a GF 1 wk before her B-DAY,How do you think that is going to go over when she goes to me her secret admirer and see it is you after you making her think you have a GF...She is going to have a head spin wondering what the HELL is going on or slap you and call you a PIG.
So you need to fix the damage you caused first.Girl are typically shy will have a hard time to come out and as a guy straight out if he likes her.She may have been going through the same thing as you before the confussion and turned it around to know if you have an interest instead of coming out and stating she is interested to save a crash.Plus she through you a hint when she stated the rule of the employees she would be included manager or not.
So how are you going to fix this mess....?
You will have to stand up for yourself and be a man and let her know that you paniced at her question,your brain decided to freeze and before you knew it the words were out of your mouth on a defence and the truth is you do not have a GF to the contrary you have been admiring her for sometime.Hopefully she is understanding and will let this be a humour story between yous in a relation building.Ask her for her forgiveness and if you have a chance.If so let her know you are aware of her B-DAY and you would like to celebrate it with her and would also like to do something special then really romance her at that time AND BE HONEST WITH HER FROM THAT TIME FORWARD!!!!!
This is from a female.The acct is just under my boyfriends name

Answer 2

If I Got A Secret Admirer Note No Way Would I Go....Who Knows Who Is Going To Show Up? Scary.

Wow It Is Really Hard To Capitalize Every Word, I Applaud You Your Question Is Really Long And You Did It. It Must Have Taken You Forever To Type

Answer 3

Oh sweet jesus! Simma down na! I can hear the panic. Look, the best way is to play it straight. The secret admirier thing ALWAYS backfires because #1 you told her you had a GF and #2 she will think it's someone else anyway. Get her something nice for her birthday (not roses) and tell her, hey i really DO like you, I was just playing around or I was just kind of intimidated by you and I just want you to know i'm interested in you. That's all you gotta do. Either she'll appreciate your honesty or she'll be a real b to you after that, in that case you are better off lookin somewhere else.

Answer 4

Man, that's a question. A secret admirer is romantic, it's sweet, but that all depends on the time of girl. But don't let it go on too long. Drop hints of who you are. Just tell her right out, and say that you lied about having a gf because you didn't know how to tell her you like her. The thing is this: If you don't just do it, you'll never know. You could miss out on a wonderful relationship. If you she says no, you didn't lose anything, you never had her to begin with.

Answer 5

It is cute, the secret admirer thing, but definitely tell her you don't have a gf in the note with the invite to dinner. Explain that you only said this because you were stuck when she asked you strait out. Good luck. Keep up the romance.

Answer 6

Secret Admirers can be kind of creepy, especially if you don't really know the person very well. It's cute once you get to know the person better. It sounds like she likes you though, so I say, Go for it! Why did you say you had a gf?

Answer 7

u should not ever lie to her again cause you dont start off on a good foot there! and also I think it's cute to do that! Oh and tell her that you made up the gf because you wanted to surprise her with the secret admirer thing! Good luck!!!!!!

Answer 8

first of all DON'T DO the secret admirer thing thats super immature and secondly you shouldnt have told her you had a g/f but its not to late just keep talking to her dont act to desperate and sje will come around soon.about the birthday thing yes take her out she will love it just dont act to desperate u might scare her away and another thing she seems like she might be interested in you if she asked u if u like her...good luck

Answer 9

I Just Want To Know Why You Capitalize Every Word.

Answer 10

Yeah girls do like complements, but giving a girl to many complements in a row can make it seem like your telling her this just to get something from her. Something that you should consider is being a modern gentlemen. Do the simple things, girls love that type of stuff. Its not that you give the best gifts or take her to the most expensive places. Simply, going take a walk in the park and taking is really sweet to do. if yu go to school with her approach her sweetly and not like the bad boy types. girls, love sweet guys & the best thing to go ?