My girlfirend complains that i "use her for her high heels", its only a fetish, she doesnt understand. advice?

Question

for those who didnt read my correction, shes wearing the shoes....

Answer 1

Well 1st of all, do you like the high heels on her or on yourself?

If the shoes are on her than the problem is that the pleasure is going on a 1 way street, so now your job is to find out what she likes.

But if you are the 1 wearing the shoes than the problem is you need to either get your own or stop it for a while cuz she's not too thrilled about i. Other wise you're gonna find yourself wearing them by yourself cuz sometimes women will go along with your fetish until they can't take it any more and kick you to the curb.

Answer 2

Many people wont agree with something like that. Ex specially when you are dating them. You asking her to understand and accept it is just as hard as her asking you to stop. I think it would be fairly difficult to find a woman who will not have a problem with you wearing there high heels.

Answer 3

You're going to have to do one of two things:

1. Get a new girl friend who is down with you wearing her shoes or
2. Take her out shoe shopping with you so she and you can pick shoes out for YOU while ya'll are together. Make it a couples deal, come home, model them for her.

Answer 4

Let her know about the fetish...explain it to her that its not just about her shoes....if she doesnt understand...steal a shoe!! hahaha

Answer 5

Men have wider feet. You would be stretching her shoes and now they will be unwearable. You should replace them and while you are there get some of your own.

Answer 6

Try doing something for her. Try asking her what she'd like you to do, wear, say, etc. Maybe this way, its not all about you. If she still doesn't get it, either change your ways or change the girl.

Answer 7

Fetish or not, you never get between a woman and her shoes. Payless has buy one, get one half-price sales. Go get your own, buddy.