I'm 18 years old...never had a girlfriend in my life. I thought I loved a girl when i was 16, thought it was going to work out, she kept leading me on thinking we might be able to go out, then she started dating this crackhead from our school 4 days after we went out...i still think about her everyday. Recently, i met a girl at work, things were going good, until i took her out. Found out she had absolutely no moral fiber, no values whatsoever, unlike the girl i think i love...and now that girl that i just went out w/ doesn't even like me...i can't even get a date with a whore...all i want is a girl who i can be best friends with and also have as my lover...and who has values, and morals, who would make great mothers because of these things, just as i would make a great father. but it seems like these types of girls only go out with guys who do drugs...i'm really down about this...is there any hope for me?
2006-11-30 14:35:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you won't be single all your life!! it's okay, it'll be okay. you haven't met that special person that will make all the difference in your life, but i am confident you will. ....i like you avatar and name by the way...i REALLY like it. i love to study aliens....well, i'm really sorry about everything, but you are a special person. you look for the morals and all the values in a person which i personally think is the best thing that i ever heard. you are an amazing person and there is probably many girls thinking, am i going to be single all my life? you're young! take a chance! go to school, ask a cute girl out! for fun that is!!
good luck!!! i'm really sorry.... :-(
2006-11-30 14:41:19 · answer #1 · answered by chaos causer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was 18 when I had my first boyfriend..who I am still with and love very much. It was weird, one day I felt EXACTLY like you (no hope) then within two weeks I was with the nicest, most caring guy in a great relationship. Believe me when I say this, you are only 18, not 50, you are still very young, too young to be worrying about being single. You will meet hundreds of new people every year, just relax. I can guarantee you there is someone out there for you (and not the girl you were talking about) who will be just what you are looking for. It is just going to take time. I know the wait is hard, but you will appricate it much more. Good Luck.
2006-11-30 22:47:58 · answer #2 · answered by Ash_082 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a great guy. You are still very young, and can first be good friends with a girl before getting into a relationship. Yes I think someday you would be a great father, but try to get an education and good job first so you can support any children that you might have.
2006-11-30 22:42:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
U know what I know what your talking about. Im 15 and never had a girlfriend or barely kissed a girl but u and I are still young. It just takes time and I know it hurts but sonner or later u and I will me someone
2006-11-30 22:42:15 · answer #4 · answered by Joho 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes. there's definetly hope. somethings just take a while. trust me. eventually you'll find the right person. you can't rush things. sooner or later the right one will come along. you may not be expecting it at the time, it may not be the one you imagined. but honestly, theres a "perfect" someone out there for everyone. you just gotta let her find you.
hope i helped.
2006-11-30 22:41:24 · answer #5 · answered by soccer loser0903 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first off drugs are bad, just go get a job in the womens section of a store in the mall like macys
2006-11-30 22:41:06 · answer #6 · answered by kingajs 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Who cares? Singlehood is a lot more rewarding than a relationship. Once you can find satisfaction with singlehood, you'll never need a partner again.
2006-11-30 23:02:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
do not be so mad, you have love coming your way you are just looking on the surface that's why you are not finding what you need ,so look within,looks is not all ,see beauty where no one else see it and and your wish will be granted. COVER YOUR EYES NEXT TIME YOU SEEK AND YOU SHALL FIND.
2006-11-30 22:42:54 · answer #8 · answered by lucky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea my fellow, i have the same trouble, im 14 years old, i never had a girlfriend, never really kissed a girl, and right now i dont really have any female friends. idk was gonna happen to me or u but im just gonna wait to meet her. and if i never do, ill stay single
2006-11-30 22:39:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is hope for everyone and you should stop trying to find this girl because when u least expext it you will find her! there is a person out there for everyone!
2006-11-30 22:41:25 · answer #10 · answered by shygirl1124 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋