ok my friend has fallen for this guy that she met on da net! he wants her to move in with im and they've only eva met once!! I'm afraid that he wil take advantage of her and i dont know how to tel her to be careful! i'm her best friend and if she goes and lives with him i wont be able to make sure she doesn't get hurt! She's 16 by the way which is WAY too young!
2006-11-30 14:18:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you really need to have a sit down talk with her, you cant trust people over the net, and she needs to get to know him more, before the immediently move in! talk to her, and dont let her do it.... chicks before *****... she needs to listen to you!!
2006-11-30 14:23:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should try and talk her out of it, tell her that she probably needs to get to know this guy a bit better before moving in with him. Tell her to make the guy come to her (as guys should not girls chasing the boys..) and go out for a couple of dates to see if they are compatible, tell her if he wont do this then he doesn't really love her and its not worth it.
if that doesnt work get her parents involved!
2006-11-30 22:24:25 · answer #2 · answered by Knowitall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell her that she is moving on way to fast. how old is the guy tho? if he is older then her, especially 18 and over, then he is breaking some rules too. since you are her best friend, you need to tell her the truth. dont move in with this guy and you guys are moving to fast. also, she is acting stupid. sorry to say
2006-11-30 22:27:36 · answer #3 · answered by EverCharlie2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this seems like a really serious situation. tell her she's too young! she doesn't want to start her life off so quick, when a guy is that serious that quick he usually only wants sex. and that's a bad idea because they probably don't even really know each other.
2006-11-30 22:24:45 · answer #4 · answered by nitespector 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋