My son was killed by his mother and its a tough thing to deal with.thats why I am sick of real people and I need to know all the pointers that I can to help me deal with this. A little info... He was a Jr. and eight months old. I m twenty-four but he was my look alike.
2006-11-30 14:17:38 · 28 answers · asked by babyface 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The mother killed him it was murder!!! death by stranglation. reason was she said she didnt want it any more cause i got locked up and he reminded her of me. its my fault if i had my head on stright than i would have been there to protect him.
2006-11-30 14:30:09 · update #1
Do not stand at my grave and weep. I am not there, I do not sleep. I am a thousand winds that blow, I am the sunlight on ripened grain, I am the gentle autumn's rain. When you awaken in the morning's hush, I am the swift uplifting rush Of quit birds in circled flight. I am the stars that shine at night. Do not stand at my grave and cry, I am not there, I did not die... As for the mother "Even when there is no law, there is conscience.
2006-11-30 14:30:12 · answer #1 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, i would like to send my sincere sympanthy to you. You didn't deserve for that to happen to you. I am sooo sorry for what you must going through with that. I know it's easier said than done but just hear----or read, rather---me out. This earth, this generation, is a very twisted, messed up place. You're son was so young and innocent but just think---at least he didn't have to sense any pain or know about the craziness of this world. And we all, no matter what, should rejoice in death. Cry when new life is brought, rejoice when one has passed on. God has his reasons for everything that happens. Just pray and ask Him for His guidence. He will never forsake you. "We may endure for a night, but joy comes in the morning."
2006-11-30 22:27:08 · answer #2 · answered by Just get it over with already!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry for your loss. The mother will surely have to pay for her actions.
You, on the other hand, have to live. This is a tough thing to take, I know, but time will be your best friend. The hurt won't ever go away - but time will dull it some.
Until then, remember your son fondly, visit his grave to speak with him about how the day is going, and remember that life does go on.
Be strong. Be generous. Be as kind as you can to others. Be well.
Nam myoho renge kyo.
2006-11-30 22:22:05 · answer #3 · answered by Stuart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did his mother do it on purpose or an accident? I think dealing with the death of a child by any manner is unimaginable...I really hurt for you..I know it will take time..if itwas an accident the mother is going to feel bad also, or even later on if she did it on purpose...I wish you the best.talk to whoever you can and take all the time you need to grieve, there is no time limit on
it..Good luck to you..
2006-11-30 22:23:20 · answer #4 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG,,thats terrible :O( It is the hardest thing to bury a child.My heart goes out to you & your family. Spend time with those you love & with those that loved your son.Be there for them. That is what kept me sane when my brother perished,,I had to be strong for my mother. I was in a cloud like for @ least 3 years,,one day I looked at my longtime roommate & said,,I dont know where Iv been but I feel like I just got back.Im usually a strong person but its so hard because it was so sudden & unexpected,,we were in shock.I wish you peace,,I hope there is justice,,I will pray.If you want someone to talk to,,feel free to e-mail me.
2006-11-30 22:25:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i sure hope u dont live wit her still if u do MOVE OUT NOW find a chick that is willin to have kids and u could have kids wit her and if this kid was a look alike u known ur next kid will be to well i have nuthin else to say i am very sorry about ur kid by the way MOVE OUT.
2006-11-30 22:22:18 · answer #6 · answered by jadesexy_1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aaawww to hear that.....i just want to say sorry for your lost and hope everything is going good for you.....this is a hard one but i think the best thing to do is talk about.....cause you might build up all the anger and hurt up in side you and you'll never be ale to move on and feel a little "normal".....the second is to pray.....pray to god to help you feel better pray to god that he's in a better place pray that she'll get what she gave a lot of heartache pray that he'll give you the strength to move on.....3rd is to try to think that everything happens for a reason think that he is in a better place and that gad needs him even if you think you need him more.....that's all i really can tell you the rest is up to you and how you choose to deal with this and i hope i helped you a little.....I'm so sorry again for your lost.....I'll pray for you
2006-11-30 22:28:24 · answer #7 · answered by ladee giggles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god... I am very sorry for your loss and please know that he's in a better place now... I couldn't imagine that and feel for you... It's understandable to be the way you are and I don't even know what I could say in a million years to make you feel even the slightest bit better but I am a good listener if you ever wanna talk... you can i m me at sextonangel@yahoo.com my prayers are with you and I send you lots of hugs...
2006-11-30 22:28:04 · answer #8 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So sorry to hear that. The mother is probably in jail. Get busy with your own life. Nothing can help your son now., but you can help YOU! My baby died of an serious condition. Look ahead, not back.
2006-11-30 22:22:33 · answer #9 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read book called Easy Death by Adi Da.
Get counseling, and good luck.
2006-11-30 22:20:44 · answer #10 · answered by soulsearcher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋