i have this friend and he's a male! he has a girlfriend and is happy with her, im happily single. when we are together, which we always are, we are very flirty. we hold hands, kiss, and sit and lay on each other in positions that you would only do with your partener.and to top it all off i get jealous when he's around other girls and when he talks about his girlfriend. but he's always telling me im so perfect and deserve the best and that any guy would be lucky to have someone as beautiful as me. is this wrong?
2006-11-30 14:14:55 · 10 answers · asked by manderz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok let me put it this way, how would you feel if you were his girlfriend and he was holding hands, kissing and laying on another girl??? Exactly - its not very nice. And what you are doing isnt very nice. And he is weak because he cant decide between you two and allows himself to cheat when he is involved with someone else instead of being a man and breaking up. This guy would be a loser long term and you are better off without him.
2006-11-30 14:18:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me it looks like he's confused about his emotions. I think he likes you and her! That may sound flattering but be aware..situations like these can lead to disaster! I'd advice you to keep your limits with him and keep your feelings controlled. I say this because you don't want to end up hurt and hurt him and his girlfriend. Whatever you do, don't convince him to break up with his girlfriend. If he breaks up with her by himself, then that's a different story. I don't think it's wrong that you share such a close friendship. I can relate to you since I have a guy friend who I'm close to (but not physically). Anyway, seems like you have feelings for this guy and I hope you wouldn't attempt to break their relationship. Remember, what goes around comes around. Just wait and see what happens. Don't take any actions on your own. I'd advice you to distant yourself physically also. You can always explain this to him and he should understand that it's not appropriate to have a girlfriend and flirt with a friend at the same time. He needs to make a choice about his feelings on his own... Also think about how his girlfriend would feel about you two being so close to each other. If you were in her place, how would you feel ? I hope you understand. Good luck and best wishes....
2006-11-30 22:32:30 · answer #2 · answered by * TeXaS cHiCk * 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmm..... no... as long as everyone knows there bounderies... a relationship like this is rare and can raise some eyebrows... if the boys g/f is all right with it......
I don't know how to put into words the kind of relationship that you have... it is rather special and can blossom into a life long relationship..... *im still finding it hard to write about what you have here.... , but there is a time it will run it's course and left on the shelf and in pages of your journals and memories...
but... and here is the but... it can turn ugly in a hurry if it isn't handled properly... if you see this relationship through a jealous persons eyes it will be destroyed... if you expect to much of it, it will crumble....
it is like handling a precious snow flake on the hottest July day... enjoy it while you can...
2006-11-30 22:21:49 · answer #3 · answered by Maken trax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would he even do these things if he is seeing someone allready!! I think he doesn't know exactly want he wants and is caught in the middle!! Just tell him straight that you like him and if he doesn't then tell him that you don't want to do what you are both doing anymore!!
2006-11-30 22:17:42 · answer #4 · answered by pqr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
end it now sweetheart, before it's too late. I went through the exact same thing and was really hurt.There's no way that situation can end up good.
2006-11-30 22:19:05 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not as much on your end as on his, but that's not saying it's cool on your end either. You need to ask him to leave her and be with you or you need to dump him becasue you're going to end up ruining two relationships.
2006-11-30 22:17:55 · answer #6 · answered by pixi_doll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you guys like each other but afraid to confess to the other person because of your friendship means alot to both you.
2006-11-30 22:31:15 · answer #7 · answered by The D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm confused..is he trying to bull or trying to tell you he likes you but unfortunaltely he is attached??
2006-11-30 22:17:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think hes playing with you and his girlfriend. and doesnt know what he wants
2006-11-30 22:20:04 · answer #9 · answered by yangkai90 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u can probly get in his pants
2006-11-30 22:18:08 · answer #10 · answered by mikerohanjoe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋