ok so hes in my pe class right?his names matt and ive told guys by talking to them and giving them notes that i like them alot and i got my feelings hurt by 2 of them so ever since that happened ive been very shy and havent really told anyone that i liked him because i was afraid that they would turn me down.so i dont know if this guy likes me or not and if he does i would want to go out with him but i dont want to take the chance of getting my heart broken...someone help me with this plllllz!!!
2006-11-30 14:11:44 · 6 answers · asked by christine... 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok.... first of all never write a note to a guy telling them you like them, you tell them in person. second... stop being shy, EVERYONE gets turned down... EVERYONE... even the people who think they never will. your heart isnt going to get broken. its just a crush, its not love... love is a strong word, so dont fight back and say it is. you get your heart broken when youve dated someone for 5 months, and have slowly fallen in love with them, and he cheats on you. just talk to him!! dont be shy bout it, sure it'll hurt if he says no, but its not a broken hurt its just a crush, why you think they call them that. and why you think its falling in love. you just gotta go for it, because either way, your gonna get hurt sometime in life... im guessing your younger, which means you have ALOT of life ahead of you... good luck. dont be afraid, face your fears
2006-11-30 14:20:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i understand how you feel even though im a guy. But i would definitely be worried about my feelings getting hurt. but i think that its important that you talk to him about it one on one and have it be between you and him. If he breaks your heart or says something mean he wasn't worth the time anyways. If he just declines you politely its better than never giving it a shot. Don't let other people do the work for you he will think that you don't really care and that you look at it like a game.
2006-11-30 14:17:26 · answer #2 · answered by yangkai90 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do is to get to know him a little first. see what he's like and if he's somebody you would want to be around. ask him questions about himself and try to find some common interests then just bide your time and tell him you like him after you are a little more comfortable with him.
2006-11-30 14:16:04 · answer #3 · answered by nitespector 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK test the waters a little ask a close friend of his to ask him if he likes you and if it works out go for it
2006-11-30 14:17:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he feels the same way but GUYS DONT READ GIRLS MINDS trust me what you may think as flirting or even a dead give away dont rely on us reading your mind...whats worse wondering what could have been or taking a chance?
good luck
2006-11-30 14:18:08 · answer #5 · answered by iPlayAcousticguitar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you want it bad
2006-11-30 14:26:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋