My gf has a love for toys, which i don't mind. Latelly she became possesd by wanting to try her dildo on me. I keep saying NO, hoping she would not ask again, but she keeps on asking. A friend of mine warned me not to try it cuz his gf had tried it on him & since then he lost his self respect & could never look her in the eyes. Any advice ? Why would she wants that ?
2006-11-30 14:05:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should try everything once. You might like it. And you're friend lost his self respect because he's obviously not comfortable with his sexuality. Get over it, it won't make you gay.
2006-11-30 14:10:27 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't just do it because you love her, do it because you want to! If you don't feel comfortable doing it then say NO! She should respect you for that and not force you to try anything!
It's not okay for guys to force girls into anything and its the same thing for girls forcin guys into things!
But, on the other hand, if theres even an inkling of curiosity there then do it ;o) You only live once.
2006-11-30 22:13:55 · answer #2 · answered by Tanya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try it!
You may like it! Honestly. Sometimes it's the things that are the most "taboo" that we enjoy the most. And if your girl is into it, it will probably turn her on that you gave it a shot. If you don't like it, tell her. But be open minded.
2006-11-30 22:10:23 · answer #3 · answered by Josi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if she really loved you, she wud respect your decision. That's wat a relationship is all about, trust, luv and respect. Maybe you shud think to yourself 'is she really the right girl for me'. Hope everything goes well for you. Good luck :)
2006-11-30 22:11:12 · answer #4 · answered by Imogen F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋