2006-11-30 14:04:36 · 17 answers · asked by Amanda Jackson . 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why force her to admit something that she feels that may make her uncomfortable?
As long as HE doesn't like HER and she doesn't do anything stupid... don't worry about it! and If he were to do anything stupid... you would know immediately the value of your relationships... No use in holding on to something that is not good for you. and no use in holding your breath until something does happen.
People can't really help what they feel if they are of common average intelligence.
Don't confront her... Work on her guilt nerve and cash in big time! If she is a real friend nothing will happen and her guilt will offer you all sorts of privlidges to which you are entitled considering...
2006-11-30 14:07:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She isn't doing anything wrong by liking him. In fact, it is probably wise of her NOT to admit it. If she did, it might appear that she was trying to let your boyfriend know of her feelings and possibly pique his interest.
I've had crushes on lots of people. If they are my friends' boyfriends, I do nothing about it. The feeling eventually decreases to a manageable level. It's just something we all have to learn to live with.
2006-11-30 14:10:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember, never be angry to her. Just take a time to have a serious conversation with her. Ask about her feeling with your BF, tell that you need an honest word and promise if you would never angry to her. Trust me she will tell the truth to you. I have already done this way, I ever feel what you feel now, first I feel bad but after that I feel okay cause i hear the truth from my BBF mouth.
Take care,
Dee
2006-11-30 14:12:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you know she likes him if she won't admit it?
just be very careful. you will probably lose either her or your boyfriend in the end... that is usually how this stuff works out... unfortunately...
(by the way, intelligence has nothing to do with feelings-comment to post above)
2006-11-30 14:07:23 · answer #4 · answered by christy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if I only think that my friend (or any other girl for that matter) likes my man, I keep her as far away from him as I can. Either that or make sure they are never alone together. You can trust your man, and you can trust your friend, but when it all comes down to it, humans are humans, they make mistakes. So if I can avoid a "mistake" I will.
2006-11-30 14:14:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always felt that it was best to have male friends because with female friends you can never trust them and besides if there is even a hint than its true.
2006-11-30 14:09:56 · answer #6 · answered by tiny tott 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect her for not saying it and not going forward with it. If she feels like you need to know she will most likely step forward and state so. You may think that she likes your boyfriend more than she actually does and ruin your friendship for no reason.
2006-11-30 14:08:06 · answer #7 · answered by ▒♥▒♥▒♥▒♥▒™ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
most likely she probably does like your boyfriend, but she won't never tell you, don' worry about it if you and your boyfriend are in a stable relationship then theres nothing to worry about try to spend time with her without your boyfriend and spend time with your boyfriend without her thats what i would do
2006-11-30 14:09:58 · answer #8 · answered by luv_meforever_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your best friend is your bestfriend then she wont be liking him or shouldnt be liking him but just ask her if she likes him and if she says no go with her word and if you get more suspicious ask him.
2006-11-30 14:09:11 · answer #9 · answered by tinkaboo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U say hands off bi tch!! nah just kidding. Have a calm talk with her about it. Dont get too overprotective about it tho.
2006-11-30 14:08:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋