It was about 2 mos ago at a party. I had way to much to drink and almost every one else had done passed out. My friend and I were still drinking and so was this guy that we didnt know. i was totally wasted and so was my friend. the last that i remember is going to the bathroom and then the guy comeing in with me and thats were i just blanked out. My friend dosent know much either she said we stayed in the bathroom mabey 15 mins and then the guy left. I have no clue what happened in there. I know for a fact that i was a vrigin but after that night im not shure. i cant ask the guy bcs no one knows him. If i did have sex with him wouldnt i have known it the next day like being sore or something. Also i havent had my period. I am almost 2 mos late. i am worried that we had sex and im pregnant but i have no other signs of pregnancy. Could i have lost my vriginity and not no it? how can that even be possible?
2006-11-30 13:54:47 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
It does sound like you could be pregnant. Take one of many HPT to be sure.
You could always have lost your virginity, especially if you don't remember it. Do you or anyone there know who the father could be?
First--see if you're pregnant. Honestly it sounds like you could be. Stop drinking and taking drugs. Go to a doctor. If you're not pregnant, look into birth control.
Second--figure out what the best course is for you. I don't know how old you are, so you may or may not be on your parent's insurence plan. Tell them if you are pregnant or they will find a surprise.
Third--find this boy. He needs to know that he may be a father.
2006-11-30 13:57:34 · answer #1 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, absolutely! Besides the alcohol, maybe a date rape drug was put in your drink. Either way, you were raped.
This happened to my friend; her story's like yours. She didn't remember anything either, but knew something had... especially because when she awoke, he was still there, asleep. She did get pregnant. After the baby was born, she went back to school, got a degree and a good job. She really loves her little girl. I admired her courage.
With you, it may be too long to be checked with a rape kit, and have the police document it. But, you certainly need to be checked out by your family Dr., and tell him what happened to you. He'll advise you better than anyone else can, and contact the proper authorities.
I'm so sorry this has happened to you.
I wish you all the love and support you need now. And, that SOB needs to be stopped; just think, he could be doing this to other girls, just like you.
2006-11-30 22:53:55 · answer #2 · answered by smartycat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear I must be kind and gentle and tell you most likely you are pregnant and this should be your main concern not virginity that is later that fact that your period is late tell us that read that hay virginity is small to the menstrual disappearing i tell you go to a gynecologist right away this should have been done and you must never drink again ever you see you are not mature nor responsible enough and the fact that you are left blank with no menstrual period and don't remember losing your virginity is enough evidence to never use any substance ever again and if you chose to you shall be among the don't know what your doing clan!
I must say this to you to wake you up now or you shall be lost forever you see things can only get worst imagine that!
don't take my advice and caring expression harsh only true and loving!
hay there's a ton of std's to worry about and the big one hiv needs to be handled and cleared we have no concern about your virginity but your health love get checked and let us all know- plz
2006-11-30 22:01:48 · answer #3 · answered by wise 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its possible you dont remember, and some girls arnt sore the next day, everyone is diffrent, first, get to a clinic or pregnancy crises center where you can take the test, second call someone about your drinking, if your drinking that hard (to black out) theres a problem, and you need to adress that. You will never know who the father is if you are pregnant....unless you do all yu can to track him down (but he dont wanna be found...no guy wants a kid at a younger age) Sorry bout your luck blondie...
2006-11-30 22:00:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you drink enough and the guy was sober enough to get an erection, then it's certainly possible you had sex and don't remember. If you think you might be two months pregnant, you really need to take a test so you can decide what to do if you are pregnant. Good luck!
2006-11-30 21:58:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's possible. Make wiser choices the next time you decide to drink, and perhaps you ought to take a pregnancy test.
2006-11-30 21:57:03 · answer #6 · answered by missyscove 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
See a doctor and take a pregnancy test... Sometimes if you didnt menstrate for more than 28 days you may lack nutrition...
2006-11-30 21:59:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The only way to know would be to visit a doctor. The doctor can tell you if the hymen is broken and also if you are pregnant.
2006-11-30 21:57:17 · answer #8 · answered by zyllee 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it's rape, if it did happen. why didn't you go to the doctor before after it happened. go now, and get yourself checked out, both for STDs and pregnancy!
and stop drinking so much that you black out. it's not your fault that he might have raped you, but you need to control your actions yourself, as well.
i hope everything works out.
2006-11-30 22:00:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What da funk is wrong with u? dat is just nasty and sluty of u not ot remember losing it. yES U WOULD BE SORE THOUGH. You should not be drunk in da first place getting with guys u won't remember and black out. that was a stupid and nasty thing and ur parents should be told and u shoul be stiked by lighting for being such a little nasty slut!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Plus u late and think u pregnat u should really get help. of course u dumb trick u lost it and u weree wasted that is how it could be possible WHORE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-30 22:02:48 · answer #10 · answered by BigL- T 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋