It's as if women get off on playing mind games with men, leading them on, lying to men, saying they'll call and not calling, etc. They tell the worst lies and even more disgraceful, they get off on breaking a guy's heart. Who taught them to play games so good - their mother?
2006-11-30 13:38:13 · 34 answers · asked by Sledgehammer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no one taught them, its just the way society is. a woman can do what they want and its ok, but if a man breaks a womans heart then he is a dirty dawg. my favorite is after u move in with a woman she uses the saying that we need to make sure our relationship is based on love and not sex, just so she no longer had to do more than just lay on the bed with her legs open.
2006-11-30 13:41:19 · answer #1 · answered by keithy 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋
They learn it when they get treated the same way - by other men! Doesn't feel so good when the shoe is on the other foot now does it? So I'll tell you the same thing that men tell women when they are playing games with her head - "that's just the way it is, if you can't handle it nobody is keeping you here, you're free to get out of the relationship at anytime" You should know what that bulls--t sounds like, I'm sure you've said it to a few women in your day!
2006-11-30 13:43:28 · answer #2 · answered by qtee425 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Women have been learning to play games since the prehistoric times. Remember, women do not have the strength that a man does and had to use their wits to survive back then, so they have evolved differently. Next time you're at a party, watch two women that don't like each other. They will tear each other to shreds verbally with smiles on their faces. Same party, two guys. They will be in each others face trading insults and probably punches before the night is over. "Ya jus gotta be careful Son, cuz them girls, they're all the same".
2006-11-30 13:52:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now that's not fair. Guys play just as many games. Guys lie just to get some. We all lie, but guys are the worst at saying they'll call and not doing it. I've been married 8 years, but I still remember all those "games" guys play. Girls do too though.
If some girl is playing games with you then she just isn't worth your time or feelings. She won't change so just find someone else.
Your heart will heal soon. It may take some time, but it will.
Good Luck!
2006-11-30 13:42:57 · answer #4 · answered by ******* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry you have had to go through such bad times but....it will make you smarter and a bit more cautious in the end....which is good! Men and women alike play these games a bit differently...but all in all, these games usually end up hurting someone. I am female and did not get offended by your sexist remark because it goes both ways. Games are not my thing...I am very blunt and "to the point" when it comes to love......games are for children.....not adults!! Just try to see what is happening and run before you get hurt!! Just don't give up because there are women who aren't out to hurt you....keep looking!
2006-11-30 13:48:50 · answer #5 · answered by ~MEEEOW~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a sighn of abuse when they were young.
They have lost control of a situation that has reamined with them. Playing the games ur talking about is a way to be in control, a way to create instability. Women like this fear comittment, and a normal lifestyle, for fear of loosing it. Or it has lost it's meaning because of childhood trauma. It's sad some do this. I've been there myself and it is potent, they stab and twist. Find some solace in knowing it's like the wizard of oz, under the smoke and fire is a shy, fearfull, unsure little girl trying so desperately to hide herself.
2006-11-30 13:47:45 · answer #6 · answered by NIGHTSHADE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is more like a response for all the games that men play. Fight or Flight! If you really like whoever this is: tell her you don't want to play games and lay it out (the way you want the relationship)
2006-11-30 13:41:24 · answer #7 · answered by Jamie G 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
We liked to play hard to get! If proves that if u put up w/ it long enough your worth it! Guys break womens hearts too!
2006-11-30 13:46:11 · answer #8 · answered by minnesota sweetheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i got a question what makes men cheat and lie and play games with us? who taught you men to play games so well or was that a talent you were born with?
2006-11-30 13:42:17 · answer #9 · answered by kd baby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, men taught them to play games.
2006-11-30 13:40:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, my momma taught me everything she knows. Get real, men play stupid games too! Look on here, you see it constantly! I'm not saying women don't play but don't act as if its JUST WOMEN!!!!!!
2006-11-30 13:41:33 · answer #11 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋