ok there is a girl that i think likes me and i cant seem to come up with enough courage to ask her to the dance. its 2 weeks away.
when i try to talk to her and "casually" stroll into the dance subject.i start to mumble incoherently.and when i mess up while talking i try to get away from the person im talking to... or i try to pull away from the subject w/ the first thing i think of even if its something stupid like spoons.
Basically what should i do?i need help
2006-11-30 13:30:57 · 16 answers · asked by sparkhead 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Write her a letter/note and stick it in her locker. We (most of us) LOVE stuff like that. Just don't forget to sign it with your name. You can do a couple til you get the courage to ask her. I know it seems really hard but the worst she can do is say no. Then you can go with someone else. You'll do fine!
Good Luck!!!!
2006-11-30 13:35:50 · answer #1 · answered by ******* 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
heyy
well, i think you should try to feel more confortable talking to her. If you really like someone you shouldn't feel nervous or uncomfortable around them. If you are a shy person in general then try to ask one of your guy friends to be around you while you are talking to her about the dance just to give you a little more support. Girls understand the fact that guys get nervous sometimes cuz we are just like you. No need to be worried about anything. Next time be more confident and keep telling yourelf that nothing bad is going to happen. if she really likes you then she will say yes for sure. If you are really shy then you can aslo call her and ask her to the dance on the phoen. You better ask her soon cuz someone else might do it before u!
Good luck =)
2006-11-30 13:46:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try just accidently running into her and blabing out, "do you want to go to the dance" . dont start talking to her and then bring it up bc this will make u more nervous. You could have someone else ask her, but this would make it seem like you dont care all that much. Write her a note, and make sure you are there when she reads it. This would make it easier on you too. But remember, if your afraid to talk to her now, are you going to be okay for the dance?
2006-11-30 13:34:36 · answer #3 · answered by mystifyingsilence 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, if a guy liked me that way I'd prefer him to come up to me and ask me out himself! Get the courage dude! But if she's a shy kind of girl then maybe do it through one of your mates or her friends..
But if YOUR going to ask her out then make sure you get her alone, because if she's with her friends it can make a hell of a difference to her response!
Don't stress too much about asking the girl out, because trust me, theres nothing better than a guy with confidence! :o)
2006-11-30 13:35:29 · answer #4 · answered by Tanya 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you know, that's normal. and this is exactly the reason why hopeless romantics invented a thing called "love letters".
If you can't say it personally, write a letter. tell her you are too shy to ask her out because everytime you try, you just can't help but look at her...or something like that.
tell her the honest reason. i know she'll understand... then, tell her you want to ask her out for the dance..
I can't say it will really work, but at least you tried. =)
2006-11-30 13:36:50 · answer #5 · answered by -'UpEnDi'- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, there's and easier way to ask a to the dance, u can write it on a peice of paper, if she's in your class if she's not then you have to ask her in person but before asking her to the dance in person ask her if she's goin to the dance with somebody else if she says no and why then ask her " i was wondering if u would go to the dance with me."
2006-11-30 13:37:18 · answer #6 · answered by justine v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to relax bro. the worst thing u can do is seem desperate. girls like being abused and ignored to a certain degree. just how we guys like challenges so do girls. once they feel like your whipped then they lose interest. u need to chill and just keep talking to her and wait for her to ask for u guys to hang out. also u dont wanna be the person always texting her for a conversation, no matter how bad u wanna talk to her wait for her to text u. the whole relationship thing is just a game, that sounds really bad but its true.
2016-05-23 06:37:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to walk up to her and say......You want to go to the dance with me. Then it will be off your mind and you can move on!
Hurry up theo so it aint to late to ask someone else or b4 she gets a diffrent date!
2006-11-30 13:34:05 · answer #8 · answered by julia l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spoons? hmmm you need to think of something else sweetie. try writing her a letter or if its easier to talk on the phone instead of face to face try calling her. good luck
2006-11-30 13:34:19 · answer #9 · answered by kd baby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay. do you have a year book? go to her picture and ask her to the dance. i know it's stupid, but then you have an idea about how you talk. focus on your idea. don't let your mind wander. concentrate about this girl. you like her and you want to ask her. you're the guy. she's probably expecting you to ask her out, since, aren't GUYS supposed to ask the girls???
good luck!!!!!
2006-11-30 14:10:34 · answer #10 · answered by chaos causer 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋