Is a girl considered a ***** if she moved on a week after her failed 1yr+ relationship? She didnt cheat on him but she just knew it wasnt working out and she just happened to meet someone else after the break-up. Should there have been a longer mourning period?
2006-11-30 13:29:47 · 19 answers · asked by Caroline R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guess one would question if you ever really loved your boyfriend of 1yr+ in the first place. I can say from experience that when you break up with someone that you truly feel for, all you can think about is them and the thought of another relationship is the farthest thing from your mind. But then again people react differently to different situations, and this may be perfectly fine. The only person who really knows is you. If you feel fine with how it all went down, then what does it matter what other people think, they're not the ones who live your life. If you feel good then don't let anyone tell you otherwise, good luck!
2006-11-30 13:36:25 · answer #1 · answered by qtee425 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are so many variables to this question. Number one she shouldn't have to explain herself to her ex or anyone else. Whether or not she should hurt more is really not up to anyone else! HE might still be hurting, but that does not mean she has to. I am assuming this was a platonic relationship (meaning no sex because that WOULD make things more difficult).
My only concern would be that she might have met someone at a time when she was vulnerable. That person met a need that she had, and she could be leaping into the same kind of relationship that didn't work the last time. That would be my concern. If the year old relationship wasn't a very strong one though then the only thing she is worrying about is what other people or her ex thinks.
2006-11-30 21:34:50 · answer #2 · answered by alicesarbonne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not even if you were married. If you are out , than you are out of it and need to move on. It is not a death in the family, sodon't sweat the mourning period. Neither you nor him are obligated to remain dateless, or single for any period of time. Moving on to other pastures is the best thing to happen to you.
As for family or friends treat it as if it is not any of their business which is the situation.
Best of luck, lots of everything nice for you
2006-11-30 21:41:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mourn what?
over is over.
Be a little more considerate to the others that can't grasp that concept, and dignified in the "new boys" on your arm.
Don't speak ILL of the old guy, just say he was wonderful, yet not for me! Leave it at that. If they ask WHY you broke up. Politely smile and say, That's really none of your business?
When did you last have sex? Is your boyfriend circumcised? He looks small is he? Is always my next set of questions for the girlfriend that keeps pushing me for more information> SEE- that's none of my business- see how it feels!
2006-11-30 21:37:19 · answer #4 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not avisable to enter a new relationship after such a short period,it is not fair to you or the new guy that you are dating aswell as yourself,your feeling for the previous relationship needs to be completely dissolved before you enter into a new one..the mourning period should last as long as is needed,depending on each individuals feelings.
2006-11-30 21:36:53 · answer #5 · answered by roobeng.indahouse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!! How could there be a time limit as to when you can start falling in love again after a break up!!
2006-12-01 15:51:53 · answer #6 · answered by PhiloPhobic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you move on whenever you feel you are ready...what's the point of sitting in your house and mourning over something that is over and cant happen again...
2006-11-30 21:32:41 · answer #7 · answered by Mila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the guy really loved her and she just left him like that then it is wrong but if they both knew where the relationship was going and didnt really love each other than its not really wrong
2006-11-30 21:33:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. people normally do this to help in getting over the ex
2006-11-30 21:34:15 · answer #9 · answered by jlicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if she is over the guy, then sure why not go out with someone else? its her choice whether or not she moves on or not.
2006-11-30 21:32:24 · answer #10 · answered by tlc080891 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋