I'm in college that's about 3 hours away from my hometown, and i'm kinda getting involved with someone back home. I'm leaving next friday to go home for six weeks. The guy I'm getting involved in has assured me I shouldn't worry about him not being into me but this past week we haven't really spoke that much. I mean I could be just paranoid and all but when we're together we're awesome, and when we're apart we don't really contact each other much outside of a daily short phone call. Am I just being paranoid?
2006-11-30 13:24:47 · 12 answers · asked by Ashton W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well he has just bought a house he's remodeling himself. I mean he text messages me alot and calls me almost everynight but I still feel a little worried
2006-11-30 13:31:10 · update #1
We've liked each other for over a year now but we've both been in other relationships with other people and now we are both single and wanna get involved.
2006-11-30 13:35:02 · update #2
No....Part of being in a long relationship is communication and he doesnt want to communicate with you by talking on the phone...
Who knows really I can not tell.....I'm sure he can't keep his hands off you when you are together.....they are all like that....
2006-11-30 13:27:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A daily phone call? Yikes..that's a lot.
Concentrate on yourself and your security level. Get involved in different things and don't make him the center of your world.
It will make you a more well rounded person and it will further your relationship more than you ever know.
P.S. Quit asking for assurance from him. You can find that within yourself with enough confidence.
I mean seriously, why wouldn't he be into you? right?
Ask him about his house... you'll find that the conversations get a lot longer.
2006-11-30 13:29:11 · answer #2 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys don't like talking on the phone as much as we do. If he assured you that everything was cool then I would just act normal and not worry about it. The last thing you want to do is seem needy and clingy to this guy (big turn-off).
2006-11-30 13:28:35 · answer #3 · answered by faeriemagik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay- let me get this right...
College "romance"?
The reality of semester boyfriends its sometimes they only last as long as the "semester" so have fun.
Please don't let it get you down. This is the time for learning about you and learning in college! Not worrying about hooking up or that MRS. degree.
Seriously- take my word on this. Mr. Wonderful will be there if he is supposed to be him. I have found, that true love, comes with "no worries" about any kind of betrayal and they can't wait to talk and be with you. Also, he would have been with you at home for the holidays.... or at least some of them. Three hours is not very far honey!
Best wishes.
2006-11-30 13:31:13 · answer #4 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
long distance relationships are tough. i was in one for awhile until i ended up pregnant and he decided to move in with me, but i think that if things are really meant to be and you guys are compatible all the miles in the country shouldnt get in between of you guys and communication. if you cant talk when your apart - maybe hes just using you when your there and keeping you on a back burner when your not around. you dont deserve that. think about it and talk to him
2006-11-30 13:32:32 · answer #5 · answered by kd baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if hes not being your sweet heart then go out and get another one. Or maybe try asking him about his feelings...(that'll be hard hes a guy lol) but if hes ignoring you when your not together he might be getting it on with other girls just dump him and move on or try to work something out. I hope my advice helped. Good luck!
2006-11-30 13:28:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to realize and accept that he's not all that into calling or emailing...either trust or let it go or you'll make yourself miserable...
Long distance relationships are tough anyway...don't make it harder for yourself than it's going to be anyway...some people don't even get a daily phone call...
2006-11-30 13:28:17 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, girl, don't sweat it. You'll pick up where you left off. It's better you don't pressure the guy. Let him miss you, he'll be a lot more sure about you than if you keep on buggin' him.
2006-11-30 13:29:13 · answer #8 · answered by Pivoine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, when ya feel somebody is there in your heart
they are there still, even if they move to Hawaii and marry somebody and have 5 kids.
ya still have em there 30 years later I think
whatever
2006-11-30 13:29:34 · answer #9 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its possible ur just to anxous to hear from him.sometimes thats a good thing it lets him know you care.if its bothering you this much tell him talk to him about how you feel he could just throw in that extra call.
2006-11-30 13:29:17 · answer #10 · answered by alaina l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋