I have a crush who has a crush on me. We have both been waiting for a week for someone to do something. My friends has always told me to ask her out to the Jr. High Dance. The thing is, my friends always try to embaress me, so i can't trust them. So what should i do? (P.S. I am extremely shy and find difficulty to even talk to her...)
2006-11-30 13:23:25 · 9 answers · asked by Lt. V 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
or is it too early for this ind of thing...
2006-11-30 13:23:43 · update #1
(P.S. she might have said she had a crush on me out of pity... I don't know)
2006-11-30 13:28:39 · update #2
you need to bust out of your shell. go up to her and say hi and the conversation will pick up. when you get comfortable enough and the conversation is going well just ask her and go with the flow.
2006-11-30 13:26:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends. if you are so sure that she is so into you that you can't get any better, then go for it! you SHOULD ask her out to the Jr. High Dance and just make sure you stay away from your friends. If she is WAITING for you to say something, you should say something! She likes you, so there is no reason that you shouldn't ask her. Besides, you are the guy, aren't guys supposed to be the ones that ask girls out?
You should just go up to her and say, "you know that Dance that's coming up, you wanna come with me? It's fine if you wanna go with friends, i just thought maybe you'd like to come with me." If you talked to her before and flirt and all those things, then you shouldn't be shy around her. Who cares about what other people think because, in reality, there isn't a right or wrong answer. Your friends are supposed to support you and maybe they are the ones doing the wrong thing. You should do it. Good luck!! I really hope you get the girl!!!!!
2006-11-30 21:29:00 · answer #2 · answered by chaos causer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say just go up to her after school, and ask her to the dance. If she has a weird look on her face,like an ew I don't even like you face, then just add "as freinds." So, if she says no niether of you will be embarassed and your relationship won't change.
2006-11-30 21:27:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anorexic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i can relate seeing as i am a shy girl in junior high. i think you should ask her because trust me if she has older sisters they have told her that she cant ask a guy. well if you like her go for it. and if she likes you shes gonna say yes. dont worry about things being akward and having nothing to talk about, trust me you will find something to talk about. my old boyfriend was like that and ya know what? it made me love him more!
good luck ; )
2006-11-30 21:27:27 · answer #4 · answered by DanceForJoy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask her out. Your friends might emmbarass you a lot, so dont ask around them. I think if you both have been waiting, then the boy should make the first move. But if she does first, then no sweat right?
2006-11-30 21:27:47 · answer #5 · answered by Star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hah...you have the same problem as I do, and that's being timid
the first step is talking to her, getting to know her more
and then make your move when it's the right time...it always works
2006-11-30 21:26:40 · answer #6 · answered by Li 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say it in a conversation, like this. "Ya that was a good game. Say, why don't we go tothe dance as friends together?" There, checkmate.
2006-11-30 21:46:16 · answer #7 · answered by Read n' Write 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i know from expireces. just have one of your friends go up to her and ask her. Just relax you can do it. she likes you to. so it is easyer to ask her.
2006-11-30 21:28:30 · answer #8 · answered by oreo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont have to talk to her... just send her a card or soemthing asking her out
2006-11-30 21:25:18 · answer #9 · answered by gaby f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋