that i only rely on my looks . is that bad?
but when she told me this i asked her they why are we going out?
and she didnt say anything. i then asked her if i dodnt have looks what shoulfd i rely on caause im dont have a good personality well i do but im just mean sometimes. but idk.
what do yall think??
2006-11-30 13:13:46 · 18 answers · asked by CJ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Looks is easy - you really don't have to do too much to make looks work - and that's cool. But ultimately looks fade and it is important to be a compassionate, interesting, successful human being. It is important to develop your mind and your character just as it is for everyone, for all sorts of reasons. A well rounded person is what we all want to be, not just a pretty thing that contributes nothing else to the world or society or our friends or family - right?
Peace!
2006-11-30 13:18:10 · answer #1 · answered by carole 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is anything wrong with working with what you've got. But you have to realize that your looks will eventually fade and/or you will get into situations where looks won't help. It's really important to look deeper into yourself and find out where you need to develop - then do it. Take a class, volunteer to help out with a charity, mentor a child - there are so many ways to give back and in doing so you will grow so much.
Good luck!
2006-11-30 21:20:00 · answer #2 · answered by tee_walton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have my looks to and im probably the biggest a**hole youll ever meet but I do have a heart and girls just have to find a way to bring it out of me try sayin that its a good excuse
2006-11-30 21:16:38 · answer #3 · answered by Smokey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i havent seen you so i cant tell ya how good you look but i hope that youve got more going for you than your looks. also it is my opinion that when a guy is good looking and knows it thats fine, but when he tries to use it to get girls - i think it makes them look too cocky and like they are full of themselves and that is a turn off! (at least to me) if she is only with you for your looks you need to think about reconsidering your relatinshipa nd sending her out the door with nothing but a picture of you
2006-11-30 21:18:20 · answer #4 · answered by kd baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If some one is dating you only because your looks then you should dump them, big time, Find some you who loves to hang out with you.
2006-11-30 21:17:04 · answer #5 · answered by Vera K 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately, looks matter a lot of times. its just that sometimes physical appearance is just what attracts one to the other, its normal
2006-11-30 21:16:12 · answer #6 · answered by emma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. I think it's time for you to go find yourself. I definately recommend you start meditation, go smoke some weed, take some x, just get away from yourself.
2006-11-30 21:16:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think she's just going out with you for your looks. Sorry bud.
2006-11-30 21:15:10 · answer #8 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she didn't want to sound shallow...but when you're young the first thing to be noticed is the looks....no big deal....*thats in psy 101* so use your looks, now use your brain power to truely win her over....get going......
2006-11-30 21:19:30 · answer #9 · answered by tgdjm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a job i n the uk very decent jk stick to america
2006-11-30 21:16:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋