me and my boyfriend are going on one month next week and i really like him like a whole lot but you see im not sure if he just likes me for my looks and he just sees me as a trophy to show off in the halls on the way to class or if he geniunely likes me back.. i mean we talk a lot but he alwayssss wants to put his hand around my waist when were walking in the hallways and when we first started going out he looked at my boobs like..a lot and he always trying to kiss me when were with his friends
and i've had about 2 other guys go out w/ me just because of my looks and i dont want to go through that again and i dont know why i still can't tell if they do just want me for my looks
so does he just like me for my looks?
2006-11-30 12:37:23 · 12 answers · asked by IceBabee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds liek he does like you for your looks. A month is still a fairly new relationship so tell him that you never shared it with him before but you don't care for pda (public displays of affection) so soon in the relationship. If its a big deal then he probaably wanted to show you off and likes the attention. Otherwise he will understand and will nkow its okay later on in the relationship. Then as time progresses you will see if he lieks you for you. Also, ask him directly what it is about you that he likes so much and why he wnats to be with you. That should help you out.
2006-11-30 12:45:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this age you should be honing your social skills and finding yourself. It sounds like you don't have a problem with guys, so don't lose sleep over one! You aren't going to marry him after all...... You've got a lot of learning ahead of you.... Take things in stride... Sieze the moment and enjoy the ride for just what it is.
2006-11-30 20:42:23 · answer #2 · answered by Patricia D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that if he really liked you he wouldnt try and show you off, if that is how you feel, then you need to go with your gut feeling. You deserve better than that and i dont even know you. every girl deserves a good guy not a pig. there are many fish in the sea, i would keep fishing hunny.
2006-11-30 20:41:38 · answer #3 · answered by horth06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than likeley, yes. Most school guys like that only want you for one thing and one thing only... Trust me I used to be one of those guys until I loved and lost and well lets just say your never the saem after that... I would dump his ***... Find a nerd.. They like women for there looks but they acually take the time to look at who your are on the inside... Try it...
2006-11-30 20:41:14 · answer #4 · answered by Nathan C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to tell. It could go either way. You could try talking more about things you like and going places you like to see if he goes along. If he only wants to go to the mall and show you off, that is a clue.
2006-11-30 20:40:28 · answer #5 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say he like you just for yor looks I've had that happen a lot. I just get my heartbroken a lot by these kind of guys i would wait it out another week or so and if you still feel like this then confront him about it if that doesn't work than sorry to say dump him
2006-11-30 20:41:48 · answer #6 · answered by Mel Mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im not quite sure. it depends on what kind of guy he is and what his reputation is like i guess. and i hate it when guys just go out with you for your looks!and it will be hard to tell cause they will tell you they love you and everything and theyll be really sweet but some guys do just go for looks.anyway i wish u the best.good luck
2006-11-30 20:43:27 · answer #7 · answered by roxygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really really want to know if your bf loves you for who u are, try this out. ask him to do the most difficult job. for example, getting you food in the middle of the night or asking him to help you with something you find difficult. he must always be there for you and not be just going out with you whenever he likes. that's the power of true love. it defies almost everything. :D have fun
2006-11-30 20:42:11 · answer #8 · answered by blizzard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is just using u to show off on his friends because he only do those things around friends if he likes u he would do it when u are alone or all the time.
2006-11-30 20:42:39 · answer #9 · answered by leecy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible. You need to respect yourself before anyone else will. If you are uncomfortable with the PDA, you need to let him know that.
2006-11-30 20:39:40 · answer #10 · answered by Stacey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋